What is wrong with me?

  • Larry Green
    18 years ago

    So I have liked this girl for a while, we are really good friends and everything, and I know that she did like me, but now like a week ago she said to me that she does like me, but that dating anybody is just too serious for her, but now she is going out with this guy that cheated on her a few months back. Why is she going back out with him, and why can't i stop thinking about her even though she drives me crazy when i'm with her, but then when i'm away i can't get her out of my mind

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    She could just be back with him because she wants to go back to something that's familiar instead of dating someone new. Or maybe she just wants to give him a second chance or something. And it sounds like you really really like and care about her.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Haha, bro I've been in that exact situation before.

    My story goes. I used to like this girl that liked one of my close friends. She knew I liked her, and she told me she couldn't go out with me because she was still falling for the guy that broke up with her. Whenever I was around her, I hated her, but whenever I wasn't with her, it felt like I needed her. The emotions were so mixed up at times. It was the worst and best feeling all at once.

    I learned to get over her. Because I couldn't force her to go out with me. If she didn't want to go out with me, I had to accept that. I also learned, if you fight for a girl that doesn't like you, it's like saving a damsel that isn't in distress. Fight for someone worth fighting for. Learn when to fly that white flag. You'll get over her one day. You'll find another girl, and you'll forget about the one that got away.

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    Larry,

    Girls are confusing, I won't lie. We do many things that make guys crazy... Now, about this girl you like:

    I suggest that you just stay friends, as you have stated above, you are "really good friends." Maybe when she told you she likes you, she didn't mean like that, and she had to make up an excuse for not wanting to date you... So as to not make you feel bad.

    She could be going out with her ex because either she still has strong feelings for him, or maybe to kinda put up an unwritten sign that she's offlimits.

    I know it's hard, but just find someone else to be your girlfriend. Let this girl just be your really good friend. If it's meant to be, then it'll happen naturally.

    (Keep in mind that I have NO idea what this girl is like so my assumptions are based on average girls that live around me, so please don't be offended if I'm completely wrong)

    ~BJ~

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    18 years ago

    Girls=confusion most of the time..I should know I'm one of them, but maybe she just wanted something that she could mess around with before getting into something serious with someone else that she really cares about. Good Luck
    ~DyingBlackRose~

  • Xx.Lovely.xX
    18 years ago

    Wow, Darien The Way You Describe How You Felt About This Girl Is Absolutely Wow.. Dunno What To Say.I'm In A Confusing Situation Right Now, I'm in love with my best friend, actually he knew that i love him, he wrote me a letter that tells that he used to love me.. blablabla.. and that now he's lost .. whatever.. his sister is absolutely sure that he loves me, she told me that when i get online , he open my msn window's conversation and stay looking at my display's picture... I'm so confused. I'm so in love with him. I Moved along just to make it trough... He'll see what it's been missing. He do Miss me. That's really crazy. whatever, ABOUT LARRY, I REALLY AGREE WITH DARIEN. JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE, DON'T SEARCH FOR THE LOVE, LOVE WILL FIND YOU. GOOD LUCK :) Hope You'll find The One.