I dont know what to do anymore

  • Lizem
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend and I are dating for about 6months now, but lately he's getting these sms's from a chick in his class...Like in love sms's and he says it means nothing, but suddenly he wants to have space. What does that mean? I love him with all my heart, but does that mean he actually starting to get feelings for her and want to make his mind up. Please I need some advise

  • Ashes of a Black Rose aka Night Child
    18 years ago

    talk to him about it. it might be hard, even akward, but the best thing to do is confront him. start off by asking "is there anyone else besides me that you like?" and follow up with, "how about that girls you get sms' from in class? do you like her?" find out if he's really into her, or if he's just flirting or something. and i hate to be the one to say this but, if he says he really likes her, i'd ask him to chose, you or her. but thats just me. if he really loves you, he'll keep with you. if he doesnt, then let it go. you cant hang on to things you cant have. but most likely, theyre just talkin or flirtin, nothin to get worked up about.

  • Nancy
    18 years ago

    IF my boyfriend would be flirting, he can go take a hike!! Flirting is as bad as having an date behind your back.

    Talk to him about it and see what he has to say about it. IF he indeed likes her, give him a choice!! It is as simeple as that!

  • SatinRisse
    18 years ago

    Flirting is harmless as long as that line isn't drown. Flirting is a part of life...if you dump everyone you're with because they flirted with someone...then you are going to be alone for a long time. There is a thin line though that should never be crossed...which includes sexual comments, touching such as wrapping arms around eachother, really long hugs, things like that.

    I would talk to him though. Maybe there is something going on that he isn't telling you. He might be telling you that it means nothing but you aren't there all the time with him so you don't know if he's writting back to her. You need to talk to him and make sure how he feels. If he's not willing to talk about it, and not willing to tell her to stop....then you need to break it off because he just doesn't care the same anymore.

  • Anna
    18 years ago

    They've said it all, ^
    Talk to him,Don't ask too many questions,instead,ask tricky ones.
    And just be relaxed about it.

    Good luck.

    --Anna xx