Lizem
18 years ago
My boyfriend and I are dating for about 6months now, but lately he's getting these sms's from a chick in his class...Like in love sms's and he says it means nothing, but suddenly he wants to have space. What does that mean? I love him with all my heart, but does that mean he actually starting to get feelings for her and want to make his mind up. Please I need some advise |
Ashes of a Black Rose aka Night Child
18 years ago
talk to him about it. it might be hard, even akward, but the best thing to do is confront him. start off by asking "is there anyone else besides me that you like?" and follow up with, "how about that girls you get sms' from in class? do you like her?" find out if he's really into her, or if he's just flirting or something. and i hate to be the one to say this but, if he says he really likes her, i'd ask him to chose, you or her. but thats just me. if he really loves you, he'll keep with you. if he doesnt, then let it go. you cant hang on to things you cant have. but most likely, theyre just talkin or flirtin, nothin to get worked up about. |
SatinRisse
18 years ago
Flirting is harmless as long as that line isn't drown. Flirting is a part of life...if you dump everyone you're with because they flirted with someone...then you are going to be alone for a long time. There is a thin line though that should never be crossed...which includes sexual comments, touching such as wrapping arms around eachother, really long hugs, things like that. |