mothers!! and devorice help me!!!

my mom and dad are divorced . she had me when she turned 18.i feel its my falt there devorced .people say its not my falt ,thay never say it though.also my mom is annoying me she wants me to figure out whut i want to do with my life and to get good grades .i make a,b and c's . i have no clue whut i want to do with my life im only just 13 .should i plan so early ? i told her whut
i wanted to do with it and she said it wasnt good .she wants me to be a nurse or lawer .she and my dad never belivie in me or care whut i want.

Hey i understand wot your feeling...in some ways i sumtimes get the samething not necessarily on the same scale..but your parents want you to figure out wot u want to do with your future and things like that..i been through the same thing...I can say one thing..you are in no rush what so ever to make a decision like that its virtually impossible as you said you are only 13 you cant decide exactly wot u want to do yet because you still need to experience new things to be sure in what you want...im 18 and i only just decided what i wanted to do..so take my word for it u dont have to make such a big decision so soon...the thing about the divorce of your parents..no matter how much u think it may be its not your fault, u may think it is but its not because what goes on between parents are becoz of their own reasons no matter wot u can never think its your fault for their divorce..if your mum and dad really dont care about what you want then use that to motivate yourself even more to do exactly wot u want becoz that will show them that u kno wot ur doing and ur doing it properly..remember one thing..nobody can make things happen for you only u can make things happen for youself so what ever you choose to do do it for yourself nobody else...its quite a long winded answer bt its da simplest way i can put it i hope it helps you..take care..xx

I'm a mother and I'm divorced. I have a 12 year old daughter that is mostly with me. I remember those days when her dad and me constantly fought after the divorce. Now we are best friends and talk to each about our daughter all the time. We want the best for our daughter but she still will make the choices in her life. Her dad and me never blamed her for our divorce. THat is something happend between the two of us and not her. As a mom I can only direct my child in the right way. She is free to make her own choices and so should you!

I'm 13 aswell and my friend's parents were divorcing and they were asking her who she wanted to live with ... 4 her it was a hard decision and ppl offered to hav her live with sum1 else

aniwaiiz ... i haven't planned 4 my future ... I think I'll just let fate decide ... ^^ ... out of curiousity, wat did u tell ur mom u wanted 2 do??? ... my parents just want me to do wateva i want 2 when i get older ... hmmm

as 4 ur grades ... if u need help understanding sumthin .. u can always ask me ... ^^ ... but it might b difficult since we live in different countries ... (at least i think we do coz in australia we spell MOM as MUM) ... but aniwaiiz ... I'm here 2 help ... u can hav mi email r sumthin .. if u want it that is ... *sigh* ... i know this must b really hard 4 u but it will lighten up one dai ... but u just hav 2 w8 till that day comes ... ^^

i want to own a club and be a pro chef!!

that would b cool ^^ ... my friends want 2 work in a sushi bar ... and weirdly enough hav managed 2 convice me 2 come and work at one 2

Im going into the culinary arts buisness..when im finished with high school..my dad doesnt think its a good idea but thats what i want..

I choosing nxt yrs subjects at school and mi dad wants me 2 do Dance and Electronics ... but I want 2 do German and Information, Software and Technology (aka Computer Studies)

but ... maybe i might do electronic because how my parents say it it actually sounds cool ... ^^

Hey, I'm sixteen and my parents divorced when I was 10 or 11, I know how you feel it's really hard, it's still hard for me. My brother and I always thought it was our fault or parents split up but just soon before my parents seperated my granny died (my dads mom) and thats when he decided he wasn't happy with my mom. Maybe you can go into councelling, my dad put my mom, brother and I in counselling with this one counsellor and she didn't help but when my brother and I kept threatning my mom we were going to commit suicide she took us to another counsellor and thats when I got into grade six i'm going in to grade eleven and she's still my counsellor and I still go to her when I have problems. About you mom goiving you a hard time, believe in yourselve that you can make it to what you want because it's your future and your going to be stuck with the job you want to have a job you like not just for the money! Hope this helps you have any questions we can tak about it privetly.

:) hi!

im 13, my name is kristi, and my mom and dad are kinda divorced... not legally or anything, but divorced when it comes to churches, and separated because of beliefs. i have a hard time with it because my dad dislikes all of us for being evangelist...

and my mom doesnt pressure me for what i want to be... she forces me. when i wanted to be a lawyer, she got mad because her computer bf said lawyers are all wrong in the head and my mom told me never to be one. i was angry about that because it's my future and she cant force me from being what i want to be... at least i didnt say i wanted to be a pusher or something! and now i want to be a surgeon to save lives and know i helped someone, and my mom just .. .gah... lol.

basically she just wants me to marry someone who's rich ... me, i dont care who i marry as long as they have character and are the kind of person i need in my life... cause rich people aren't always that friendly towards others and can be aristocratic when it comes to friendships... :P i wish i were normal, because the world has turned into money. money in your wallet, then its gone. ...

well, gl... :)

my rents are undergoing a divorce. its not ur fault and even if they say it is or act like it, theyre only looking for someone of somthing to blame for their mistakes

keep ur chin up

and ur 13 u got plenty of time. im 16 and im just starting to figure out everything

if u wanna talk or whatnot msg me