ughhhh......so confused, please help!!

~ okay, so here's the story. For three years, I have been in love with this guy. Nothing bad has ever happened between us, we were apart for a year, and it was terrible. The thing is, we both have feeling for each other, but we have just never taken it as far as dating or anything. I know that he loves me, but he's just too afraid to take it any further than friendship. I really want a relationship with him, but their is this other guy that is totally interested in me. We've been friends for a couple years, but I have never felt anything towards him. He kinda sorta asked me out, and I think that it could be really fun, but I'm really scared that it will drive guy #1 away, and I really love him. I guess when it really comes down to it, I kinda feel bad for #2. He has really pushed for a relationship, where #1 is just kind of stagnant. Should I go out with him??(#2)????

please help!

if numero uno isn't makin any moves go for your #2 i would... #1 seems like a lost cause

if guy#1 is there in your place..i mean to say is right now if he's where he lives..dan there's trouble..but if the guy #1 went for vication dan y not..try ...maybe #2 is also nice..jsut enjoy the time wid him ..and at last..when the date ends..tell him how you felt about that date...but make sure he know's that you' just want to be frens...

if guy#1 is there dan dat's trouble..

all i can tell u is to follow ur heart ... if so far u have had no bad experiances with #1 plus u have known him longer ... maybe he is waiting for u to make the first move .... and #2 sounds desprate ... idk ... if i were in your situatiuon i would pick #1 because u have feelings for him ... would u really wanna go out with a guy that u feel sorry for ? i have and it feels aweful ... i think that if u end up going out with #2 all u will be able to think about it #1 ... if u go out with #1 how u hurt #2 will follow u for a lil but u will get over it and realise u made the right choice .... but then also rememeber ... if u go with #1 and u guys end up breaking up your friendship will not be the same as it was befor u guys went out... its up to u ... u make up your mind ........ follow your heart ....

~ well, if it ever came down to choosing one or the other, i would definately go with #1. What I was asking was should I give #2 a chance?? I mean he's a really nice guy, but the feelings I have for him are nothing compared to #1. I was thinking that it could always make #1 jealous, but I don't want to hurt #2........uggghhhh...still stuck!!

If you have stronger feelings for someone else, and you go out with this other guy...then you are still going to hurt him...worse. You can not "give someone a try" if you don't have feelings for him, but you do have feelings for someone else. If you don't want to hurt guy #2, then don't go out with him!!! Date him if you want...see if the feelings will grow..but don't put yourself in a relionship like that if you don't have the same feelings for him! You get what I'm saying?

ya go out wid guy#2..i'm sure it'll make him happy..and after date tell him you only want to be fren with him...

but b4 you go out with guy 2..ask guy 1 ..for permission..that is if you don't want to break guy 1 heart for misunderstanding...,///

go0d luck~*