Internet relationships finally face to face...

Well. Tis Me. The one that's constantly confused or thinking about this cyber relationship topic; and most of you probably know why. The boyfriend that I have been in love with, the one that's cheated and still I forgave him for unknown reasons and I've never let myself forget about it (just incase it happens to be a mistake); the boyfriend that lives halfway around the world, whom I have never met... Until last week. He was here for two weeks. And wouldn't you know it, I fell deeper in love with him in that time than I was before - if it is infact possible. I come from a family with bad relationships and I have never seen one as healthy as ours. We don't fight so much, and when we do they last about 3 minutes. Our communication is great. We tell eachother so much and trust one another to listen and...well everything. There's nothing wrong with this relationship....Except the distance... He left. Saying goodbye to him was so hard. It's not been too long since he left and it feels like a lifetime. I have no strength, and everytime I go to bed and know that he's not here I cry... And for those of you who don't know me so well - I don't cry. I hate crying, and never do I let someone see me at such a low state...

How do I get over this without him? I'm sure I'll get used to it eventually, but then he'll come back..and then there's another goodbye... Anyone else to relate?

I don't know if I could live that way. It would drive me insane. If I don't see Kevin for a day I go insane!! And Kevin is not even mine...LOL I'm not saying you should be together for 24/7, however I don't see a relationship grow if there is no human contact from each other. And then there is the hurt of saying goodbye. No, I would go insane!!

Well my situation is not as bad but then again it is on a different level. See my fiancee and I have been together for almost 2 years...it will be 2 years September....but I moved right before our 1 year anniversary. For this past year, we have only seen eachother once a month. And everytime that we had to say goodbye...got harder and harder. Now..he is moving up here in about 12 days....which is why our sitution is on different levels and what not. Ya know? But my brother passed away the weekend that my fiancee SHOULD of been moving up here. But things with school fell through because of his dad. My brother and I were really really REALLY close. He was handicapped...like severly handicapped. He was my world. My everything...so when he died....I thought that my life was over. THank God my fiancee was here when it happened...but...he had to leave after a week. And it's been so hard because I have not had him to fall into when I just can't stand up any longer.

In the end...my advice to you...is to stop thinking about the distance. It's hard I know...but the more you think about the fact that you can't be together...the more it hurts. Talk to eachother like you are in the same room. Talk whenever you can. Watch a movie together on the phone...things like that. Go for a walk and talk to eachother on your cell phone if you have one. There are ways to make it better....but the best way is to pretend like the distance just isn't there.

I hope that helps. Sorry that I just kind of rambled. Lol.

wish the time and days..goes faster so you 'll grow up and can be with him..

dat is if you to don't breakup..

wish the time and days..goes faster so you 'll grow up and can be with him..

dat is if you to don't breakup..

u know my situation is so much similar to urs except i was with my man for 2 months until he moved miles and miles away... due to some problems, but ever since we continued to keep in touch n until today we have this connection that we feel can't be wit hsomeone else... we want each other badly. we're planning on meeting soon, and when we do we both know it's gonna be another good-bye cause we both will have to go our own ways with each other living in our hearts. i haven't seen him in 2 yrs but i think about him every night before i sleep. i think our realtionship is quite strong n i know me n him know the meaning of love which is y we can't let go of each other. we communicate and fix any bump on the road but the sad part is the distance. only u n ur guy can talk about what u both want in the realtionship... discuss it together n see what happens.

I believe it depends on the distance between you. If you're in a relationship with someone who lives 15 minutes away, it can definitely work. Seeing someone constantly can cause a relationship to fall apart. Having some distance betwwen you is actually a good thing. My ex moved to Europe, which is a different country. We tried to make things work, but it wasn't easy. We aren't together anymore because we were broken up by my ex friend. Either way, it probably wouldn't have worked because of how far apart we were. If you want to make it work, i believe you can. It may be difficult, but if you really love him, you will do what it takes to be with him.

I am in the same situation with my partner.. she lives in florida, i live in uk.. she came over to visit me for the summer, she stayed for 6 weeks and then had to go back.. she has been gone for 3 weeks now and it is still very hard at times.. i believe we will continue our love though and eventually one of us will move to be with the other.. i would go through the goodbye all over again just to spend some more time with her.. if you love this guy then the distance will not get in the way.. good luck for the future.. hope everything works out for you ;)

Thanks guys. I think I'm gonna be ok, it's been a while now and I've been keeping myself busy so that I don't think about him being away. It's working alright. And as long as I think about him coming back I can keep a smile on. Smiles look better on me anyway ;) lol thanks again. Talk to you all soon.

Long distance relationships can be very hard but I think strengthen the relationship as well.

My love lives in another country which makes it very hard to just go for the weekend and see her. I spent over a month with her and it was the best time of my life which told me she was the love of my life. The goodbye part was killer and is still hard to deal with til this day but there is no doubt that we will be together all the time soon in the near future.

Just keep the faith and it will work out for you I am sure! Keep smiling! :)