please, please help me. i really dont know what to do.....pelase

dont know why things keep going wrong with my life. I really dont. This time around I dont even know what I should do....

Like all stories of mine begin, this one too, begins with this one new girl. I met her a month ago in school. I liked her from the day I saw her. But that was just a crush...and then i ended up becoming friends with her. So we're very, very good friends now, in a months time. By this time, that is now, i really really like her. a bloody lot. Shes got a wonderful heart, and shes beautiful, and shes one of the ONLY ones who understands me...(not even ONE of...maybe THE only one who can read me)
And so a week back, i was just asking her casually...like who do you like...n all...so she was like no one...blush blush..and then she told me her lovestory. She really likes this one guy from another city. theyre family friends, and he likes her too. However, he's not going out with her. They just know that they both like her. And I was like okay cool. Then I go to the bathroom n cry...n okay cool again. Then in this one week...this guy starts acting weird...He stops talking to her. Almost ignores her. barely EVER calls...and well things go on and now he told her that he doesnt like her anymore...and he still likes her EX. (they met at a party again, he n his ex) And shes this one heartbroken wreck. so she tells me that she still loves him...and she doesnt know what to do.
How do i react? Well, there is a part of me that feels jealous. I just want to tell her that HE DOESNT CARE...FORGET HIM! And another part that feels really really guilty at the thought of saying such a thing. So i really dont know...but i still tell her that things will get okay...and i console her.
But i dont know what to do. Something inside me is killing me. Everyone in skul teases me with her...cos we are together for a long time everyday... n she tells them.." god, no i dont like him! i'm in love with someone else okay?" And i smile. Fucking mask.
She doesnt like me. that is CLEAR. i do. and she still likes that boy who doesnt like her. clear. but i do not know how to deal with it now.

Should I...
Give myself time to just forget her...and maybe things will get okay?

Stop being so close friends to get over her?

Should i really get over her? Or should i wait till she gets over him and then just tell her that i like her...??

Should I tell her now??

I DONT KNOW. I DONT KNOW. please, please help me out. I'm tired of my life being such a mess. I dont want to screw things up anymore. Even if i tell her and she says no, which she is going to, what will happen to our friendship? its happend before and it was a BIG BIG MESS. Thank you for being there...you are the only group of friends I can actually ever say these things to...Thank you.

dhaval i dont know you but seems you have a great heart. know what this one made me cry actually your not alone were in the same situation when i met like her and we became friends . the hardest part of it was when she cried on your shoulder coz of a guy she loves you dont know what to do coz you love her. a friend advice me that if you really love her tell her dont be afraid that you loose your friendship she must accept you as what you are.

and dhaval

you cant forget that girl who capture your heart your her prisoner and even it takes a year shes always on your heart dont be like me . when im in that situation i didnt tell to her what i feel so she got so far from me and my heart really broke into pieces.

in the end you will recognoze that it is better to be a heartbroken coz you tell what you feel for her than to be be heartbroken when you didnt tell to her what you feel did you got me . just dont be afraid first make her feel that shes special for you more than just friend , treat her in dinner and then when it is the right or perfect time tell her that you really love her since the first day you met her..

Hope thats help you

Geneross

please reply for this..

I think you need to tell her. You should be blunt with her. Tell her what you love about her. Tell her what you're telling us. Tell her that you know that guy never cared about her as much as you do.

If she just wants to be friends after you let your feelings out, you should definitely try and coop with that. Friendship always comes before love. If she wants to be more than friends, that's great. Even if you start a relationship, keep being a friend as well. I know from personal experience that friendships tend to fall apart after being a relationship. I hope that's not too confusing.

dhaval...well i think u should tell her also. and inbetween...theres no problem liking her but try not 2 bum urself out. just try 2 have fun and when u tell her i wish u good luck.

~kc~

~ Go with your first reaction, tell her he DOESN'T love her!!! It's obviously the truth, make her see that. There is nothing that would console her more than to know that you're there for her when he's not. Don't worry, her feelings will come when she realizes how important you are to her.

i want to tell her but i fucking cant....
you dont know HOW awkward its gonna get after that....i dont even have the strength to write now...im so fucking emotionally drained out. i dont know what to do.

dhavel i know what your're going through I'm going through exactly the same, it drained me out and i lost 6 pounds over 4 days.
stick with her let her get over it give it a week or so and then tell her, its do or die but then thats what life is all about.

well ... i think u should tell her because ... well u cant really b friends wen ur not honest wif each other and stuff ... can u??? i suggest u tell her abt how u fell abt her and if she really is ur friend ( or possibly more) she'd understand ...

but maybe ... I think u gotta tell her that she doesn't deserve sum guy hu'd rather b wif his ex than her ... and that she's better than that ... and by the way ... i suggest u tell her this b4 u tell her how u feel ... just so she can sorta get ova the fact that the other guy doesn't like her and that sorta thing ...

aniwaiiz ... on another note ... u swear alot huh ... sum really weird substitues that I've heard was :
"fudging caking" and "shitters" (- trying 2 sound lyk shivers)

aniwaiiz ... that last bit was trying 2 b sum sort of morale booster ... in the mean time just b optimistic and tell urself that everything will work out ... ^^

fine i'll tell her...but how? i dont know...i dont even have the courage to...but i'll muster that up...but then? what do i tell her? how do i tell her??

Tell her.

You're going to be nervous, it's natural when you really care about someone. All you have to do is tell her you need to talk to her. I think you should have her meet you somewhere. A park, the beach, or just a quiet place. When you're alone, tell her your feelings. Don't think about being nervous. You should start out by telling her that you're sorry about what happened with that other guy, but you know she deserves better. Tell her how you thought he didn't care about her, but you do, and how much you care about her. Tell her how you feel. That's all you need to do.

the only way u can get her is by trying and just tell her the truth and c what happend from that lets just say u mite get what u want and in the other hand u mite get nothing but dont be later on what coud of happned? just do it caz u never know!!!!!!!!DO IT TELL HER

well if you dont know how to tell her say ...

IM NOT SURE HOW TO TELL YOU THIS BUT I THINK I LOVE YOU.