i need some advise!!!

kk like their is this guy and he comes over and does my families tatoos and he is 20 and every time he comes over he cuttles wit me and my parents get mad bout it and i didnt kno that till a little after and at one of my parties me and some friends got drunk and he ended up makein out wit one of my friends and i dont kno if he is just lookin for some one to fool around wit or wat cuz i reely like him alot and i dont want to get hurt so i need some help cuz i dont kno wat i should do??

I think that you should really talk to him about it. Guys are little confusing and sometimes only wants attention from girls. And you might want to tell him how you feel about him and he might tell you that he feels the same way, cz you never know.
Good Luck
~DyingBlackRose~

You're 14. If he did ANYTHING with one of your friends, then stay far away from him. No wonder your parents don't like it.

I'm going to be blunt with you. You're 14! He's way too old, and probably just wants a young girl to mess around with. He is most likely thinking that you would be willing to have sex with him because you're 14, and really like him. Don't be a fool. Find someone your own age.

I agree..thats gross if he messed around with your friends then goes for you I'd be like HELL NO. You may like him but chances are he does not like you back..if he really wanted to look for someone he would go out to a bar and find some girl there..I'd just forget about him.

I know everyones being quite blunt (including me) but I do know what it's like. At your age you don't see age as a big thing, but it is. If he is interested in you, then it's wrong. I'm only 17, but I would not go for a 14 year old. It is wrong. I know it's hard, but you really should just be with people your own age who will be more likely to take things at the same speed as you'd like. Look after yourself x

If i had a friend who was 20 and he was coming round and cuddling my daughter (nearly 14) i would go mad too.. difference being, i would go mad at him and stop him coming round.. although 6 years is not a big age difference when you get older.. when you are under the age of 18 it is a huge age gap xx

i have to say a 20 year old and a 14 year old being together is wrong. try and find someone your own age cuz lets face it he's had more life experience and so you wouldnt have as much in common. if i was you mum i wouldnt let him in my house again