christian
18 years ago
Ive been dating a girl for about a year now and i am completly in love with her, or at least i think i am. We fight pretty often over little dumb things and i cant stand doing that, but when we are happy nothing in the world could be better. I can really see me spending my whole life with this girl but sometimes i jsut feel like i cant take our fighting anymore. A couple times ive broke up with her but within a couple hours i am begging her to go back out with me and she always does without hesitation. I dont know what to do. Should i stay with her or leave her. |
ABrookeD
18 years ago
I'm going to blunt with you as well. If you were "in love" with this girl, and wanted to spend the rest of yuor life with her, you wouldn't consider leaving her. You may reallly like her, but if the fighting bothers you that much, you need to tell her. Communication is needed in a relationship. If you still question staying with her after talking, you shouldn't be with her. It's as simple as that. |
donna
18 years ago
I agree.. if there is no communication apart from arguements, the relationship will not work.. if you truely love somebody, surely talking things through is better than arguing.. you can overcome most problems with give and take.. talk and compromise.. dont fight and argue, all you end up doing is hurting the person you love.. if you can not talk reasonably, there is no point continuing the relationship |