What do you do...

What can you do if you have found this dating stuff your mom is going on? I don't know what I can do to get over this plus the fact I have alot of different opinions about the stuff my mom does. (BTW she is divorced) I just don't think dating sites arn't the right way to find love and I don't want to get used to having another step parent take my parents away. :'(

Talk to her. Being blunt is the only way you can make a difference, by telling her as out-right as you can that it hurts you to see her do this.
If you don't, and just drop hints, she can pretends to side-step them.

//T.L.//

Look, I think you're being a little selfish. You can't expect her to put her life on hold for you. It's not fair.
It sounds like you mother really needs some male company right now - and it's going to be difficult for a divorced woman to get back into the dating scene. A dating site might be the easiest way for her to get back into it.

As for the other stuff she does. I'm not sure what that is, but talk to her about that if it's really bad. Maybe you could help find someone sutible for her.

I know I am being a little selfish but it's just really hard to accept the fact that another person is going to come into my house i'm afraid that if all she see's is love she's not going to see my brother and I anymore it's going to be a faded picture with a wounderful couple and the kids from the previous marriage faded. I just don't want it to be like my dad and step mom she thinks that my dad doesn't spend enough time with the kids from there marriage but he only gets to see us everyother weeked and on Wednesdays. I'm really sorry if I sound selfish.

I understand why you feel like that. I really do. I just think giving her support and understand is really what she needs. By all means, do tell her how you feel, just remember she's feeling lonely herself.

And I promise you that you won't be faded out. I'm am sure she loves you very much, and no one with ever take your place.