What do u do when every1 hates you?

  • Purple
    18 years ago

    You raelize these people don't matter. They're judgements are most likely pityful and don't hold jack shuff, and eventually you will be loved by some one. Hope for the best, hope that things will change. Give them a reactoin to their teasing they won't expect. If you usually cry and beleive them, try turning it on them. If they call you stupid point it out to them that "Everyone is stupid some times, if I'm stupid more often then others it's my problem not yours. It's stupid that you feel you have to tell me what I am." And if you want to become cheesey with it continue with "I am me, and you can't do shibbys about it!"

    If the ground hits you hard, hit it back! It won't help, but it'll make you feel better. If your dad hates you and thinks your fat think of what he's going through in life, what's bad about him and how that could influence what he does. It won't be an excuse, but it'll help you understand that these things might not be about you, but about them not knowing how to deal with themselves....

    Not loved? Love yourself. Care for yourself, talk to yourself if it'll make you feel better... If you really want you can go to my profile and E-mail/private message me. I'm constantly online so you most likely will get a response within the day.

    I'm going to bed now (or soon) And I'll see you in the morning, well, I'll check this thread at least.

  • donna
    18 years ago

    i found the best way to stop people teasing, was to ignore them and never give a reaction.. if i needed to cry i would do it somewhere they could not see.. if they don't get a reaction they get bored eventually.. hope evrything turns out good for you ;) xx

  • VYXSIN
    18 years ago

    if someone hates me i hate them back, i try to be mates with them but if they dont then both of us are in the same situation. hate each other

  • Phantasmagoria
    18 years ago

    I don't know if everyone hates me, but a lot of people do, for my oppinions and looks rather then for who I am or me even doing anything to them. It depends who the person is that decides the course of action I choose to take. Sometimes I will ignore it, but all of this has one thing in common - if it goes too far, then I will make their lives hell. And I actually know how, which is wonderful. People just need to know what they are doing, and they need to know what it's like to be treated like you don't matter. Once they experiance what the people they hurt do, maybe that pereson will stop. It's sad, though, that we can't stop all of this.

  • amandaa
    18 years ago

    You reconsider "everyone" and stop taking for granted the few people who don't hate you.
    It sucks being made fun of, and I know we often referr to them as everyone. It sure seems like everyone. They're quite intimidating, the ones who hurt us. But in times like this it's so, so os so soso important to keep thinking about those who don't and those who love you, and to love yourself.

  • Andy loves Jesus
    18 years ago

    When everyone s me? haha I'd just sing man... the only way to take anything/everything off my back. I just sing them down I don't care if they it.. good for them singing's my passion I sing my lyrics and it mostly calms people down I've stopped alot of fights singing.. lol people eventually calm down and listen to my songs and tell me to keep singing lol. Good times!

  • Black Rose
    18 years ago

    Most of my school hate me i walk to class and people tryand trip u and call you stuff i juast walk straght down to my class if they try and trip you up what i do is look at the foot lift mine up then stand on there anke so if they go tell then its there fault

  • Tine
    18 years ago

    hey I like what you say.. Good point u made there.. Part of my previous school hated me.. I just smiled at them when they said something mean.. =) I tried to find the fun in it, so I amused myself with their hating after a while!

    x

  • Italian Stallion
    18 years ago

    bump

  • Jenna
    18 years ago

    a lot of ppl in my school do NOT like me. the only ppl i get along with is my group of friends and a few outa them...every1 else loves trying to push my buttons by bringing up my suicide attemps infront of the whole class trying to embarress me or calling me a pot head or a drugy and anything else they can think of...but i've realized that now that i cant react (one of my probation rules) cause im not aloud to get in any trouble...that even tho the things ppl say really hurt and i'd love to knock em down or say something, they give up. just ignoring them ticks em off and sadly they go and find someone else to bother...

  • Dacey Flame
    18 years ago

    There are a lot of people that don't like me. It makes me SO MAD, because they don't even know me. All they know is my name. And what I look like of course. I have two girls who make things up and call me things really loudly while walking down the halls, so everybody knows. None of its even true, but my friends come to me and tell me things they hear. Its really embarassing. It's reduced me to tears more than once. I have a bunch of friends, but I dont like to tell them what they say about me...But I like your advice. Just hold your head high and keep walking. Honestly, have they nothing better to do? I know its corny, but its true. And if they say anything to your face (cowardly bitches never do, but incase) stare them down. Glare. A deep, cold, death glare. Don't say anything. Practice it at home. Its the end of them saying anything to your face, but sometimes it takes a few trys. Trust me. But you dont have to be scary unless its just you and them. If you've got someone else on your side, do whatevers right. Little attacks like that help me get though the days.

  • Roxy
    17 years ago

    Some people are just going to be super childish, but hating them back doesn't get you anywhere, unless its to the extent where your going to beat their face in. Otherwise its pointless, being nice to them and not reacting to them running their mouths, honestly makes them twice as mad. and if nothing else its fun to watch them look stupid.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    What do u do when every1 hates you?

    Hmm realize that not everyone in the world could possibly hate me without knowing me, though if they've met me then they probably would hate me.

  • Daenerys Stormborn
    17 years ago

    hahahhaha, i've been through that...at least it felt like it. well you try to figure out why they hate you, decide whether their reasons are justified or not, then go from there...decide whether you care if they hate you or not, whether trying to solve the problem is worth it. i don't know, it's stupid really. Of course not everyone hates you. There are always new faces, new friends, new lovers...people come and go