Am I rite to try and move on?

I really like this guy and he acts like he likes me and then the next day he acts like Im the weirdest girl ever. When I asked him out he said Not rite now and never chnaged his mind. So lately Ive been purposly forgeting him and trying to move on. R those signs tht he feels the same and doesnt wanna show it or am I rite to try and move on? Plese help me!

hmm.. thats a tough one.. its hard to tell unless you know for sure that he doesn't like you. because if he does and you're just trying to forget about him, its a missed oppertunity. i guess what you have to do is just find out if he does or doesnt like you somehow. if you cant, im not sure what you should do, sorry. if you find out he doesnt like you, just try and forget about him and move on. i know how hard it is, but its best. and if he does like you, then go for it girl =) i hope it works out for you..

Thnks

I think you should move on, but don't completely forget him. If he notices you're not paying attention to him, and says something about it, he might like you. If he could care less, then he doesn't. For right now just move on.

~ don't move on if you're not ready, but don't set yourself up for more heartbreak. If you can honestly believe that he likes you even the tiniest bit..I would hold on. You can't just tell yourself to forget about someone. Maybe it's impossible to forget for a reason.....

ok Ill try....

I'd say move on. If he really likes you it's up to him to make the move.. you made yours. The ball is in his court, for lack of a better cliche. I find, which is really wierd, that if I notice that a guy looks at me like he likes me or 'notices' me, then I'll look for that look and it will never happen again. But when I stop looking for that look then it will happen again. haha does that makle sense? So basically, move on, and trust that whatever's meant to happen will happen.

yea tht makes lots of sense thnks

move on... who knows? maybe you'll get a pleasant surprise!

yea i could...

Well...humm...i've been through that road before. Its hard to forget someone who you know for a long time. And when you want to let them go....it gets hard. So hard that you can't let them go. Only hurting one another feelings and each other. So I would say....that if you feel its the right thing for you to let him go and move on then I guess you can. I'm not gonna say go ahead and do it. I hope you haven't yet. If you two are really good friends through out the past years...and you two have build a vauleable friendship between the two of you. Then I wouldn't throw everything away. Keep whats important first. Just hold on to the hope even if it gets hard. Don't worry if he likes you or not. Maybe he does. Cause it takes time especailly for guys to express themselves to girls. I hope you get what I mean of all of this.

susan

my idea is this (the same thing was happening to me too)... basically, stick with him like as a friend, but subtly make it known to him that you're going to move on and you're not going to be there in that way, just as friends... let him know you're still around, and stick around, but just don't stay around in that way, and move on if that makes any sense at all... this way, you're still in touch a lot and yet if you do move on he'll either accept it or start to get jealous and want you again, and it'll work out for you... if it's any help at all, mine turned out for the better and he's now my bf! (the one i waited for)

Wow kool

I hope i dont have to move on though....my heart says not to and my head says to move on....

Well..I know it gets old hearing it...

Follow your Heart Hun.