im so scared plz help

im so scared. i was with this guy for 9 mths and we were totatlly serious (atleast i thought). weve been apart for 2 mths now and he came to see me for the first time since we split. he stayed for bout a hr. and i felt like we i did when we were together. he flirted and just acted like he used to. well when he left i started to cry and couldnt stop and now im having srying fits for 1 hr at a time and i cant stop.
heres the really scary part though i blacked outand now my wrists are all cut up and im bruised. i used to do this until i started going out with josh and then it stopped but now im doing it again and i dont know how to stop. i really dont remember doing it but i can be in a totally diff. place from where i remember and my friends have to keep an eye on me cuz i hit things and people and cut myself.
i dont know whats going on but will someone please help me?!!

well right now you just need to calm down. i use to cut over guys too but then something came over me to say stop. I think its because i moved on and met a new guy. so just try to forget about him. if u want to talk more add me on msn. crossmyheartforourgod@hotmail.com

~~~Amanda~~~

go see... professional help. best advice from me. blackouts, cutting, stuff like that. psychiatric care is best for you..

I agree, the people who can help You most, are the people who can help to stop this happening. The only people who can do this are professionals, whether through medication or some therapeutic counselling/classes.. Go and see your doctor xx

i used to cut for reasons such as guys and love ands mates, but i relaised i was just feeling worse instead of better, i went to see a counsellor and in time it got better and finally stopped. Its been 8-9 months since i last cut, and i feel a whole more positive now.
you just have to be strong, and try to face the world because we will all feel down at one point in our lives, its natural. hang on in there and if you need to talk email me at poetic_thoughts@hotmail.co.uk

love and best wishes, from Tara-Kay

I use to cut myself too. I eventually grew over it when getting in my late teens. Go seek professional help. They can help you deal with your problems! Good luck sweetie!

try to stop.....lik i used to cutt...but im still miserable and now im startin to cuttin again but if u need someone 2 talk 2 princess_hottie2b@yahoo.com

but i am no where near a princess

and another thing... don't be so stubborn like... what will they do? shrinks bla bla bla what will other people say about me? that wouldn't matter as long as you feel better in the end.. and also it'll only help if you TRY. if you make it happen, it will happen. ^_^

ok well you would die over a guy?...how old are you..your retarded...i mean this in the nicest way...think bout it your dead for a LONG time you only have 1 life to live so live it and forget bout everything else..i feel ya but don't feel sorry for anyone that cuts it's retarded..i know from past experience's i almost died after i recovered i started thinkin..i almost died over someone that doesn't really care so i threw the blade away and started doin things different you need to move on..he left shit happens homie give it some thought what i'm saying might be cold but it's the truth...hit me back..peace

split,
hello, i black out, i have no idea what i do until after its over! and plus, dont call me retarded, you dont know me or anything about me! i was sitting on the computer and i dont even know why i blacked out, honestly! you can say im lying, believe me, plenty of people say i am but oh well, you can come look for yourself.

Black-outs could be from either blood-loss, stress on the nervous system or, more likely, low blood sugar. This happens when you forget to eat.

I would encourage that you look after yourself, take a really long, hot bath, blow-dry your hair, get a square meal to eat, curl up and go to sleep.

I know that loss is about the harshest thing you can feel, but you will survive.

You will probably forever miss this guy, but I encourage you to look at yourself as a good, real person, who needs to look after herself.

//T.L.//