Venting and whatnot

I need to vent. Okay well I've been going out with my boyfriend Jeremy for almost four months now. I love him with all my heart as he does I. Yeah I know what your thinking, "shes only fifteen." Yeah okay I know that, but it doesn't mean I can't be in love. But, anyway back to me venting. Today I was at his house for a while, we were in his room, and lately we've been getting close to having sex. Both of us are virgins by the way. And today was the day, we were going to "do it" [[haha]]. All ready, condom on and everything, and HE chickens out. So nothing really ended up happening. I'm not mad nor upset with him or anything like that. I don't know though, we both thought that we were both ready. But ever since this happened I've had thoughts racing through my head like: What if he doesn't love me as much as he says he does? or Are his feelings for me less than my feelings for him? or Am I just overreacting? I'm confused and whatnot. This is something I would usually talk to my friends about, but my bestfriends are grounded, and the rest are guys, or are also friends with Jeremy. So basically I have no one to vent to, Yeah and your all going to tell me that I should talk to him about it, but the thing is, hes shy and probably wouldn't give me a straight answer. But yeah, I'm really only asking for someone that will listen to me, and hear me vent. So thanks.

if i was him i would just want you to act normal don't talk about it. he probably just isn't sure of himself. it's happen when hes ready and if he doesn't come around hey theres always more. so don't talk to don't make him answer anything he just doesn't want to take such a big step yet until he is sure he is ready and can handle it

Don't think so much into this... I mean, afterall, yes, you are only 15. And quite frankly (not to be mean or anything), but that's a bit young to be engaging in sexual intercourse.

Maybe that's a thing that got to him, as well... I mean, there are so many things that can go wrong, like if the condom broke or something like that...

And what if the condom did break? And what if it got you pregnant?...

Those could be some things on his mind...

Anyway, I think you both should wait.. I mean, afterall, you've only been dating for 4 months... You don't need to have sex to prove love. The longer you wait, the more special it becomes...

That's my opinion...

~BJ~

Okay, i respect him a lot for not going any further. He obviously isn't ready. Don't rush this. You're 15, and i think you're stupid for wanting to have sex. My cousin was with her boyfriend for 4 years before they had sex. I'm disappointed because she lost her virginity at 17 and i looked up to her. Why don't you wait? Why do you feel you should have sex? Either way, it sounds like your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex at this time.

I think Jeremy was just not ready for this. Give it time, don't be in a rush! Enjoy each other and it'll happen one day!

High fives thats gorgeous he's probably nervous and obviously cares and respects you a great deal :o)