If someone could answer a few questions for me will help alot pl

1) Why do guys almost always want to have a sexual relationship?
2) If you dont give them sex will they look for it some place els?
3) Whats wrong with just playing with each other? In that way you wouldnt get pregnant or get illnesses
4) If you love a guy and had sex with him once will he always wants to have more?
5) what if you dont want to give him more would he leave you for real?
6) Are you always going to feel ashame of having sex and stick with quilt and stress?
7) I love this guy and want to spent the rest of my life with him but afraid to give him sex. Is something wrong with me?

~ I'm not going to anwser all of these questions, for one reason. You are obviously not ready to have sex. If this guy loves you he will understand that you are not ready. You can't love someone unless you understand them. Love and understanding are one in the same. My advise is to go with some of the rest of us and not have sex until you're married. DO NOT GIVE IT UP. If he pressures you into it, and you give in, then, yes you will probably regret it the rest of your life and feel dirty. Stand your ground, and stand up for whats right. Good luck and God Bless

I am gonna agree with the other poster, but to answer your questions in my opinion
1) of course everyone wants a sexual realtionship sometime, not all guys do
2) If a guy loved you enough to accept you werent ready then he wouldnt go looking somwhere else
3) There isnt anything wrong with just playing with each other, it is still fun
4) Not all guys would pressure you, but if you have it once, they will probably want more
5) No, he would only leave you, if he was playing you
6) no, I dont think so, you'd only be ashamed if it was with someone you didnt love or know properly
7) No, there is nothing wrong with you, you are just not ready and that is natural, it will happen in time

hope this helps love Tara-Kay

do what you think is right (not necessarily what the other two say about not having sex until you're married- they don't know you how do they know what's right for you? sorry, no offence, do what you want, it's not my business, but don't automatically tell someone you don't know what to do!) i do agree, however, that you don't sound ready, which is ok (and to help you with one of your questions, protect yourself--- it's the best way to avoid diseases and pregnacy)!!

these are also the sort of questions you should ask your boyfriend, not strngers on a forum--even if it seems easier^^

"he (or she-lol!) who trys nothing has nothing"

1) Why do guys almost always want to have a sexual relationship?
Not always, but I would assumme it gives them something to brag about
2) If you dont give them sex will they look for it some place else?
If they dont wait, dont bother with them, only when you are ready
3) Whats wrong with just playing with each other? In that way you wouldnt get pregnant or get illnesses
I dont personally find anything wrong with that, like fingering and handjobs, only if u both are comfortable.
4) If you love a guy and had sex with him once will he always wants to have more?
yes he probably will
5) what if you dont want to give him more would he leave you for real?
If he leaves, then dont bother with him
6) Are you always going to feel ashame of having sex and stick with quilt and stress?
Sex should be a fun, memorable experience, if you feel ashamed, dont have it.
7) I love this guy and want to spent the rest of my life with him but afraid to give him sex. Is something wrong with me?
No not at all! just tell him your not ready and both of your can work through this.

From these questions, YOU ARE NOT READY. wait it out.