!!!please help me!!!

hi i have a problem and i really need some help!!! i've been going out with this guy for 5 months and he's gone all summer and either can't or won't call me so i haven't seen him since the 27th of june!!! in the mean time i guy who's a really good friend sorta acted like he wanted to go out with me and i don't love him but i got sort of attached to him but that started rumours and now the problem is that he told me that he didn't want to go out with me because there was someone else (and i think i know who it is). so all in all i don't know if the guy i love still loves me and the guy i kinda like doesn't!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!! i'm desperate!!!

cant you just call your guy or do you not know how to get in touch with him cuz that would be a simple solution. otherwise id say if this other guy doesnt want you then you might as well wait for your guy to get back to see if he still wants you. how much longer will it be until he gets back?

yeah theres no immeddiate saolution to this unless you can call your guy. otherwise you have to wait it out and forget about the second fool

wow...
mmmm where did your guy go first of all? I would say if he didn't call all summer than see ya later buddy...
I don't really see any reason for him not to be able to contact you, I mean even a letter is some type of communication. As for the other guy, I would just talk with him and go from there, I would not rush into anything. Going out to get to know each other better doesn't make you married.
You know what you feel and if you feel the guy you are in love with is the one for you then all you can do is sit and wait, but you have to ask yourself the question...how long is fair for me to wait?
I wish you the best and I hope you get the answers you are looking for somehow or another :)

thanx all of u who answered my post!! :D he went abroad (germany) and now he's working. he hasn't got a portable phone and he's not really the letter type... lol^^ i think i'll just let the second guy slide and wait for my guy to get back......everyone tells me to dump him but... despite the fact that he's unattractive and hasn't given me any life signs................................................ i love him :'(