Sad??? I NEED HELP

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    18 years ago

    Okay.. I have 2 things to ask..

    1. Whats the most sad songs you guys ever heard?

    2. I feel like my mom and my dad *who are divorced from eachother which makes it worse then ever* doesnt care whats going on in my life. I told each one of them that I love poetry and I always wanted to be a singer. They just both look at me like okay and why are you telling me this. My bf LOVES to hear me sing. And my grandma actually cares but sometimes shes like okay are you done yet? I talked to Jesse about this and he said that I should sit my mom, and dad done and talk. The only problem is IVE TRIED. But it seems like Im not even there own daughter. Ive lived with my grandma for 14 years.. I come and see them every summer. But its like if ive been away from you for a year wouldnt you be glad to see me.. And they dont act like it. My moms too into her life with her bf eric. My dad I dont think really knows how to bond with me cuz hes been with my 3 brothers alot and that.. Idk.. Im sick of this! Help me Please!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    18 years ago

    plz help me

  • Bloomed Rose
    18 years ago

    well, for #1, I'd have to say that the SADDEST song that I've ever heard is Whiskey Lullaby (even though yes it is country) but omg, its sad.

    for #2, well, if your a christian, pray. that's the best there is. but also, I think you should maybe ask your parents to do a specific thing w/you, maybe like bowling, a walk, or a movie. THAT is your time to REALLY look them in the eyes, step up to them, and tell them that you still need them in your life, whether they think so or not. Tell them that you WANT them to be a part of your life, and not just in their own. Cuz your THEIR daughter, and THEY need to relize their responsability as a PARENT! you tell them that, kk? I will be praying for you, kk? I REALLY hope that everything will be ok. well, cul8r!

  • Vic
    18 years ago

    1. boyz 2 men - doin just fine

    2. scream at the top of your lungs and start bawling in front of them. that should get their attention, make sure they're in the same place though. and then do what you want... always works for me... ^_^

  • limp
    18 years ago

    ERRRM.

    1.At the moment; The Bluest Eyes In Texas - Nina Persson.

    2.Kinda tricky one, the fact that they don't care. First off, your dad sounds a more positive talk. Why not talk to them alone one by one, when they really are focusing? If they can't, they're not really loving parents and aren't worth your.. "Sickness" of it all.

    I'm hopeless though, I just wanted to .. type.x

  • Italian Stallion
    18 years ago

    bump

  • dark blue eyes
    18 years ago

    well sad songs sometimes help me to feel better
    so i guess thats why

  • broken reflection
    18 years ago

    1. Helena and the Ghost of You by My Chemical Romance

    2. For your dad, find something that u and he are both interested in-sometimes dad need that push in the right direction.
    And if you want to reach your mother try through her b/f, if he notices you enough so will she, hopefully.
    I'm sorry that it has to be so hard for you, but sometimes relationships take more effort than others....I only hope that life gets better from here on_I hope to hear your talent in the future; reach your goals, make your dreams come true :) *hugz*

  • xxmichaelxx
    18 years ago

    [1] sad songs of system of a down or avril lavigne. kinda rock. lol

    [2] that is just [beep]ed up! my parents don't really kno wats going on with my life either but i don't care cuz i usually don't even open up to them. but ur situation, it's So messed up. i'm srry. that's just really sad.

  • Swe3t 16
    18 years ago

    LOL girl, it dont matter what ur parents think, my dad died and he was the only one that loved my songs... and my mum just doesnt understand my love of music and poem writing i tell her that thats my dream to do when i leave skool but nut, she wants me to get a so called REAL JOB!