Gut Feeling. Act upon it?

My boyfriend and I have been together for only about 2 months but things are going pretty well right now...but there are times when I have this gut feeling that he's super secretive. His cell is always ringing and he's always txting people...I know sometimes it's his mom because he'll prove it to me by showing me his phone but other times I have no idea who he's talking to...i mean, if it was just a friend it wouldn't be that big of a deal, right? Okay so recently theres this girl named Dana that he talks to...she calls him but he tells me he never answers it because he doesn't want to talk to her. But i noticed that she comments his myspace occasionally and he returns the favor...at first i swear he told me she was just one of his friend's sisters, but recently he told me that they used to be good friends, but aren't anymore.

I feel like I'm going to end up getting hurt so I try and push myself away from him & act kinda distant at times...but then I feel if I do that and there's really nothing going on with him and another girl then I'm going to ruin something that could be great.

I know ur first response will be "talk to him about it" I have, and I try to constantly...but he usually gets in a bad mood when I do or gets sad because he thinks I don't believe him when he says he truely likes .

I just don't know what to do & I don't want to end up getting hurt by another guy who can't keep to one girl...

what should I do? advice? anything? :(

get him drunk then talk about it... then u might get a honest answer!!

i dunno what you should do really... mayb just ask him straight out whether sumthing is going on... and see how he reacts.... cos its normal for guys to fancy only girls a bit... im sure you may/will have faniced a guy one point... but it doesnt affect the way u feel about him... and u still know you love him more and want to be with him.... or maybe he treats tara like u treat your best friend

sorry i ment to say dana not tara.... u never no he might be doing all this to make u jealous and its really only a guy mate or his mum

Trust is one of the most important things to have in a relationship. You need to stop worrying. If he truly cares about you, and tells you nothing's going on with this girl, you need to believe him. You shouldn't get suspicious because he is friends with this girl. Guys have girls as just friends, it's normal. If you keep questioning him, it won't make the situation any better. For now put this whol thing to the side and focus on your relationship. If anything is going on with this girl, you'll know. Just trust him when he tells you there's nothing going on. I hope that helps.

There really isn't much you CAN do other than talk to him about it. Just explain that when he gets mad like that it makes him look guilty. If he can't keep you convinced that he's loyal to only you, then there is no point in you staying with him. Good luck.