Any advice?

considering you're 99 you seem to have way to much drama... (that mean knowing your age would help alot)

but seriously in general as this case is to me without more/better info i would say you have to forget about One ... lose his name lose his number , don't ever talk to him again, just talking to him his hurting you, try to work with Two if he stays "always busy" move on from him

I kinda know what your going through! I think the best way is to just tell yourself that your better off without one, you have to move on from him, change your number, so he can't call you and DON'T call him. Delete his number from your phone all together. He flirts with you because he knows he can't have you, ever heard that saying you want something the most when you know you can't have it? well thats probably how it is for him he knows he can't have you and he wants you but the second he gets you he won't want you.

You may think you love him but you probably just really really like him, trust me i figured out all this stuff the hard way! Thikn of that other famous saying "Don't leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one THEY love."

Good luck :)

yeah.. leave one... or invite both to a dinner at a restaurant and get everything out of ALL your chests... could work out...

First off, if you're going out with 2 to get over 1, that's wrong. You're basically using 2. If your just using him to help get over 1, you shouldn't date him anymore.

As for forgeting 1. Only you can forget him. Nobody can tell you how to do it. You will stop when you're ready. It takes time to get over past relationships that meant so much. If you want to get over him, while still keeping in contact, it's not going to be that easy. All you can really do is try to think of other things that are going on in your life. You will never be able to get over him completely. Whether anyone wants to admit it or not, a person who they cared deeply about, will always have a place in their heart (corny, i know). Sooner or later, you will realize you can't live in the past. I hope that helped.

Maybe than you should leave 2 and go back with 1. I know the situation your in, me and this guy...oh God, it was exactly the same way, then I got a bf to try to get this guy outta my system and now he calls me all the time and flirts but now he got a gf and I think he did it to make me mad, but I waited around for him for 2 years, like I had a bf here and there but this guy I know he is the one, even now, I love him so much and I check my fone email and everything just like you said, and when I do get a message from him my stomach gets butterflies, and it's the same with me I never open up but with him I did, we were so right for each other and yet...I don't even know.

Based on what you said the second time I'm not going to tell you to get over him, cause I'm in the same situation. Girl you tried to let him go, and he came back, that means maybe you two belong together, and you'll never know if you don't try. Don't miss out on an opportunity with 1 just cuz your with 2. if you love 1 and you guys have a chance on seeing if it could work take it, you only get one chance in everything and if you miss it, well there is no telling if you'll ever get it back.