I need with something. Please Help!

Me and boyfriend have been dating 7 wonderful months. I am having a hard time trusting him. It's mostly me and my past boyfriends, thats why I can't trust him. I have always been cheated on in the past. I don't think he has cheated on me yet. But I think it will happen sometime. I want to trust him but I find little things that bother me so much. Like I went out of town for the weekend. I come home to him and he is happy to see me but I find porn on his computer. He can't just wait a weekend before doing anything. I am glad it wasn't another female but it still made me feel like shit. Should I care about this? It's happened many times before and I got upset then to. Another thing...He has a friend at work. A girl that works with him. She is calling the house and they have lunch together everyday. Should I be worried that this is the girl he will cheat on me with? He told me about her and has always been honest about this person. He also told me I have no feelings to this girl. We live in a very small town and he didn't want me to run to them having lunch one day and getting the wrong idea. He is leaving for Las Vegas in October. It's his 21st birthday. I am not going. Should I worry about that to? I just don't want anything to hurt are relationship and I wanna trust in him but I just can't. Everytime I try to and start trusting something happens and the trust goes away. Help! What would you do? Would you trust your boyfriend?

hey if he was my boyfriend i guess i would be a bit worried about whether he might cheat or not but if he loved you im sure he wouldnt cheat on you. you dont need to worry about the girl they just have lunch together and if he told you he has no feelings for her you should belive him i would trust him when he goes to las vegas but if you cant try not to worry about himn i dont no if i have helped much but i hope i have xxx

i sorta know where you're coming from on this one...me and my bf have been together 5 yrs, living together for 2....the strongest point in a relationship is trust..if you cant trust each other...its a pointless waste of time......now the porn thing....get use to it cause its not gonna go anywhere...trust me, ive tried, and to this day that subject still drives me nuts but boys will be boys right!? and like you said, at least it wasnt another "actual" female with him....now about the work girl, i can see how that would bother you, but at least he was up forward and told you about it. if you want more advice or talk about it more, you can msg me anytime.... funky_munky062000 on yahoo :)

I understand why you would be worried, but also don't make him one of your past bf's. Give him the benefit of the doubt that he's different than all the rest. Try your best to trust him, and if there are some things that you really don't trust about him, just talk to him. The Las Vegas thing, he'll probably get a little crazy, but most likely not crazy enough to cheat on you... probably just drunk crazy and you shouldn't worry yourself over it, if he really loves you he'll always remember you're at home waiting for him. As for that girl, I wouldn't worry about it, they're just two friends at work that have lunch together as 2 friends, nothing major... and he's told you before that he loves you and has no feelings for her, which shows he sees where you're coming from, which is good. It is very easy to be a little jealous of her, but trust that he'll be true to you, that's all I can say right now. And give him the benefit of the doubt that he's the one that is different from all the other guys. good luck i hope i helped some, but then again i'm only 15 lol.

You'll probably gain trust for him if he comes back having done nothing with a girl. You don't have to trust him right away, just don't doubt him.x

Thanks, BANGBANG! I know I will trust him if he comes home and has done nothing wrong.