Some advise please (gay)

  • DarkAngel019
    18 years ago

    OK, so I'm talking to this girl.....And i don't know exactly how to take our "relationship" We do spend alot of time together and get along but some times I feel like she only wants to be friends. We kiss all the time and cuddle and blah blah but..... How do know if someone is really into you? Or if it's just a friend kinda thing?

  • donna
    18 years ago

    ask her.. Sometimes it is easy to confuse a good friendship with something much more, especially if you are kissing and cuddling that person.. Me and my best friend have that 'close' friendship, and we have both been confused in the past and too scared to say anything to each other, fearing we would lose the friendship.. after talking through our feelings we know that it will never be anything more than 'close' friends, which is good, it hasn't changed the friendship.. but the only way to find out what is going on is to sit down and have a good heart to heart.. good luck xx

  • DarkAngel019
    18 years ago

    Well the only thing is, is that we are talking you know just without the title. She gets jealous and tells me about it. I'm just so affraid that this might just be a fling for her b/c she is going to the army and blah blah but she also talks to me about going with her. I dunno, but thanks :+)

  • donna
    18 years ago

    however things turn out, I'm sure they will for the best.. If You are to be together You will get together eventually.. I hope everything works out the way You want it to.. xx