Missed my DAD

it's not easy for someone to lose his dad, my father was a great man, he was my best frnd actually, and he left the time i needed him so bad, i miss him each day more and more and sometimes i pray to see him for 5 minutes, i swear. it has been a year since my father passed away.
i hope you can share your ideas about that

It might take time..but slowly the wounds shall heal Hun. Maybe not fully, but they will. It takes time to get over a death. It takes time no matter who it is. Espcially if it is a parent; like in your case. And since you two where close. It might take awhile. You could talk about it with people. Or do stuff that might make you happy, and realize he is watching over you. And maybe just cause he is not beside you, or able to be seen. He can be felt. He is in your heart, and will be as long as you keep on loving him. He'll watch over you..

Not sure if that helps but I tried. I'm sorry for your lose. *Hugs*

::♥ Megan::

sweetheart...just know that ur dad is ur guardian angel he is watching over you and he still loves you so much...and u know he wishes he could be right there with u...just remember everything uand ur dad did together...i never met my dad...he left when i was a year old...and i havent seen him ever...or talked to him...just know hes always with u...even tho u cant see him

love always

taylor

my friends dad passed away exactly a year ago as well and i saw all his sufferings so i have an idea of how u feel just keep smiling for all the good years you've had together and youll get through it :D

my friends dad passed away exactly a year ago as well and i saw all his sufferings so i have an idea of how u feel just keep smiling for all the good years you've had together and youll get through it :D

I lost my dad recently as well. It's hard. And everyone says they know how you feel and that there sorry, but they dont know. And sometimes i forget about him and i cry. But truthfully...he will always be there. Everytime it rains, my dad visits. Everytime the sun shines, my dad is hugging me tighte. Everytime it thunders my dad is laughing. Everytime i smile my dad is smiling with me. Thats how it gets better. Its all right to cry and its all right to hide. Just remember him and everything will be okay. i hope i helped somehow someway.

I lost my father a year ago...its the roughest thing to ever go though.
questions always come up for me tho....like who will walk me down the isle if i get married and the dance at my high skool grad where you dance with you dad...its moments like that im so afraid of...how can i not be scared? anyone got advice on this?

Aline,

I know what you mean... I lost my father when I was a mere child of six years old. And 14 years later, I still find myself wishing he were still here... I know that a lot of things would be so much easier too... But just know that it isn't the end of the world...

One thing though... Please be thankful that you still have your mother... and NEVER wish that it was her instead of him... and NEVER say that you hate her.... because you never know when her time will be up as well...

My mother just died last month... and I did those things... And those are things I'll have to remember for the rest of my life... So just cherish the fact that she's still there for you...

You'll never stop missing him, but the hurt will fade eventually... It takes time though... Just as the saying says... "Time heals all wounds".... I truly believe that.

~BJ~

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my dad passed away to and i know how u feel....he died in september and i miss him so much...u just have to be strong and know that he loves u and always will...im so sorry u had to go through that but its apart of life and it sucks.

Writing about your loss can help you. It's normal to cry, and pray, and not eat and lock yourself in your room. I think it's part of the healing process. But it does eventually get better.

//T.L.//

I'm sorry to hear that, really, it brought tears to my eyes just to read that, I couldn't imagine what it would be like to lose my father. I really hope you're okay and things work out for you, I'll pray for you and your dad.

--Steph