hmmm... "I love you"

  • TC
    20 years ago

    well got this question/survey that I was always interested to get opinions, feedback back...

    okie so me and this very close friend of mine (Im a guy she is a girl and well we are both in relationship so we can stay reaaaal close fwiends and share anything)... so ya... we talked about how its not really a good idea to rush into things when you are in a relationships, guys usually wanna rush into things and girls I guess wanna take it slow..

    so you meet a person well you ask them out or sumfin, get to know them, feel attracted to them, etc etc etc then overtime or maybe very soon ya will maybe fall in love with them but well thats rushing into things kinda...

    okie well:

    #1 how long did it take for you or your gf/bf to tell you or your bf/gf that you love him/her or that they love you... as in.. after a day ya went out.. after a week... after a month?

    #2 did ya say it back and did ya or your gf/bf feel rushed or anythin in relationship or movin too fast?

    #3 how old are ya and how long did the relationship last or is it still goin strong?

    I know its kinda long but I wanna get some opinions from people

    ... Thanks

  • Nee
    20 years ago

    heey!
    i liked your questions...let me answer them
    1- im in love by the internet..we were telling each other romantic things and we both are romantic..so it didnt take more than 2 weex to tell me that he loves me..and me too
    2-yea actually i said it back..but i think hes moving too fast
    3- im 14 and hes 15...my relationship with him isnt very strong..we're havin some fights and i think im lostbut we're meeting each other (by the way) and i really love him!!

    really nice questions :D
    xxx nina

  • PnQ Mod Account
    20 years ago

    #1 how long .... well, we were very good friends before we started dating so we have already expressed "love" for each other... but the I'm-in-love-with-you "I Love You" came 6 days after our first official date

    #2 did ya say it back... YES!!!! and no, did not feel rushed about anything.

    #3 how old... we were 18 then...got married at nearly 21.... we are nearly 37 now and still married

  • lostnloveless15
    20 years ago

    1. our's is long distance (hes in florida im in cali)anyways it only took about 2 maybe 3 weeks

    2. yes, i said it back and i truly meant it and i still mean it, our relationship isnt moving tooo fast but its not boring.

    3. im 16 and hes 17

    it all good

  • kylee
    20 years ago

    ok well

    #1 my boyfriend told eachother we loved eachother the day after we started dating! and we had only known eachother for 1 week when we started dating!

    #2 yes i did say it back, but when we first met i felt so strongly attached to him, i told him straight out that i REALLY liked him and we talked and realised it was love! i have never felt so stronlgy for somebody like i do my boyfriend, so no i didnt feel rushed.

    #3 i am 15, 14 at the time, and yes we are still together! but i dont know what age has to do with it, there is not age to love!

    And saying you love somebody shouldnt be something you feel obligated to just because you are dating, if you love somebody make sure it is love and not infactuation, because thats how people get hurt!