pregnant and left.....

this summer i went to russia to visit my relatives and i fell in love with this guy and i mean ive never fallen in love like that. usually i go out wiht some1 for 2 weeks and then we break up but this was i felt i could be with him forever... and we promised each other to wait for a year or 2 until we see each other which i know is impossible but its worth a try and the thing is i think im pregnant cuz my period is already over a week late....

my mom asked me if i was pregnant (i dunno why) and i told her no i said we didnt even have sex

but what if i am pregnant i have no idea wut to do.....

the abortion costs 200$ where am i gunna get that money?

and i already checked if iw as pregnant once (the preg. test) and it was negative but my period doesnt come and it doesnt come

i have no idea what to do and i miss him sooo much that i jus wanna die (not literally)

what if im pregnant.......................

just because your a week late doesnt mean that you are pregnant i have been loads of times if you are on the other hand people will just have to learn to live with it and i am so sure that it will be best to tell your mm otherwise youll feel even worse about it i promise you xx alex xx

Yeah I agree, just being a week late doens't mean you are pregnant, you could just have missed one due to stress or worry or anything. But as you probably won't sleep till you really know, just go to your doctor or something. Because they're not going to tell anyone and will give you the best advice. Honestly.
Hope it all turns out for the best
xxxx

Even if you were pregnant, you made the mistake not the child.

Besides, stress could do things to you like make you late.

I agree with Kaylee.

If you are don't be punishing the child for something he/she had nothing to do with. Just my opinion and beleifs but yeah.

Anyway, hope everything works out. =|

sooo u want me to have a baby at 16 years old?????? ill be punishing it cuz i wont be in skewl, no money no educationg no work not parenting skills not father....... now THATS PUNISHING

Didnt you say you guys didnt have sex?

If you didnt have sex then you cant be pregnant darl!

Look, first of all, it is punishing the baby by aborting it. Second of all, just because your period is late, doesn't mean that you are pregnant. Third of all, there are things like ADOPTION. You made a decision, and you have to deal with the consequences... If you want to kill an innocent being that CAN feel... that's just wrong!

~BJ~

k then i guess wut i choose is wrong

Shhhhitsasecret, that is the biggest bullshit i have ever heard!!! first off, yes sophia you made a big mistake and what you did was...slutty to be honest but...guess what?!? if you are pregnant, it would be punishing the baby more if you gave birth and put it up for adoption OR raised it yourself instead of getting an abortion. it's not even a baby yet anyway! it's a tiny little embryo at this point with a brain about as evolved as a mealworm. "baby" my ass! it's much better to have an abortion and not raise your child as a mistake and ruin the rest of your life not to mention your child's life trying to live on welfare with no father figure and no life experience, time to dedicate, or even the basic DESIRE to have the child. who wants to be raised as a mistake? you are too young to be having kids, but the decision is up to you. i am just pissed that people are so ignorant and stubborn as to believe abortion is punishing a child...blech, idiots

Guys let her decide for herself. Aborting a pregnancy is no sin. In fact it is proven that until the embryo has reached 8 - 10 weeks then it isnt even counted as an actual foetus/being. I believe that abortion is sometimes the best road to choose. When a female does not have the resources she needs to care for a child then abortion is the best choice. And those unprovided resources count for when the female is also pregnant with the foetus.

Would it be right to burden such a young person with the responsibilities of having to physically and emotionally look after herself while this pregnancy is taking place? No it wouldnt be.

Abortion is not a sinful thing to do...

Whatever you decide to choose, becomes the right choice.... for you. Dont let others blur your decision.

Plus one way to find out if you are pregnant is to just grab atleast three pregnancy tests (as one can often never work) off the shelves and take the test. If they all say the same thing, then you know whether you are or not. You could just be worrying about nothing.

Daenyres Stormborn.. are you God?

Who are you to decide who dies and who lives?
"it's not even a baby yet anyway!" It's a living being, it may not physically be a baby, but it is a living organism. Abortions are just ways of cleaning up a mistake you made. That's the consequence of having sex, you can get pregnant.

"who wants to be raised as a mistake?"

^^ People with an ambition in life. People who want to make something out of nothing. People who persist when failure is met. Successful people. Not pathetic people such as yourself who think that people can't have a decent life because they were brought up by adopted parents.

"i am just pissed that people are so ignorant and stubborn as to believe abortion is punishing a child...blech, idiots"

^^ Wouldn't it be ironic if your parents had an abortion when they were having you. You know, just be like 'maybe we're not ready for a kid' or 'do we need a kid now?'.. yeahh.. then we wouldn't have ignorant and stubborn people selling us useless information.

To the poster- Don't listen to anyone's oppinion on morals. This is a very personal thing; no one has any right to tell you are wrong with whatever you choose.

Yes you did make a mistake... Maybe try the pregnancy test again. Or better yet, go to the doctors and get a real test.

"Don't listen to anyone's oppinion on morals."

^^ If people valued morals, problems like this would never occur. So maybe she should listen to people's opinions.

"Don't listen to anyone's oppinion on morals"

If she didn't want opinions why did she post in the first place?

"it's not even a baby yet anyway! it's a tiny little embryo at this point with a brain about as evolved as a mealworm. "baby" my ass!"

How do you know it's "just an embryo"? You don't know how long, if she is, she has been pregnant do you? Which means the baby could be anything up to 4 weeks developed, and in fact a 4 week old "embryo" is formed. Your morals may be what you think is right, but it's still killing a human life. Carelessness is no excuse to abort a baby. The only.. excuse .. I feel somebody can use to abort a baby is rape.

I personally would not have an abortion.. however, I don't think an unwanted baby should be born into this world, the world is a cruel, tough place these days as it is.. If You are not ready for parenthood then it is the best decision not to go through with the pregnancy.. I think You need to find out for sure if You are pregnant or not, because You could be worrying about nothing.. do not let others make Your decision for You, You are the one who has to live with the consequences for the choices You make, NOT them.. good luck, I really hope that You are not pregnant for Your sake, 'cause whatever decision You will have to make will be one that You have to live with forever.. and neither of them are easy xx

If You are not ready for parenthood then it is the best decision not to go through with the pregnancy..
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No the best choice is not have sex in the first place unless you can deal with whatever may happen.

do not let others make Your decision for You,

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True but if you are tellyour parents because that would be their grandchild. Do not do osmething behind their backs not just for that but your safty as well.

And a baby is a baby from the moment it's conceived.

I agree that the best choice is to not have sex in the first place.. however in this case it's a bit late for that advice