how can a girl make you so down

i was the one who dumped her..
after i was dumped i felt miserable. i promised myself
i would never do that to the next gf i had but i broke
her heart really bad. 2+years gone by and i still cant
get over her and what i did to her. i might seen fine
but deep inside it still remains. i know im gettin "what i
deserve" do i truely like her again or is this just to ease
my pain of what i did to her? i cant avoid her ive accept
that. after hs i thought it would be ok but we live in the
same town, now the same college cant avoid her
physically and mentally..help me

It's nice that you are repented, at least...

Apologise to her, sincerely, and offer to make friends.

I would have to agree with Truest Lies Dear. :]

look if u only feel bad cause of wot u did - thats guilt

but if u feel love her her then you love her

why did you dump her ??

Do you still have feelings for her? If you do then you need to tell her how you feel. Or just tell her how sorry you are, and maybe you can become friends.

Yeah I too agree with Truest Lies - how does she feel now?
Are you still friends?

the thing is iono whats going on. she seems she still
likes me but then sometymz she hates my guts

no we are not friends, what good will that be
if i have these feelings left over and were just friends
iono i shouldve thought of that when i dumped her
but iono were young people make mistakes

to answer punk yea i do, and its not like a friend
to friend type wher you can walk up to her and
tell her anything. its been two years-going to 3
she can be immature at times.

its really more complicated..i wish i could JUST go
and tell her im sorry or how i feel and be like
"can we be just friends" but honestly we CANT
just be friends and blah..forget it

why did you dumped her?..for wat?..well you got wat you deserved!!...

and i dont' think ..even if you propose her again..
i don't think she's gonna say yes!!..well if you are lucky maybe..but CAUTION!...

i wonder why does guys..dumps girls..?..even when they still have feeling for them..?

SECRET AND DEAD

ur both gr8 ppl lol soz i just had 2 say that lol
u guys have been in my post and ur so nice fanx

xoxo

lost i ask u a question
how do guys show they like girls

* otha ppl can answer dis *

I can relate a lot to this right now. I recently broke up with a guy simply because i was upset. At the time I didn't realize what I was doing and I guess I didn't exactly mean for it to be over, eventhough that's what I said. Now I know I have to pay for what I've done to him, because it's hit him, hard.

My advice to anyone:
Never make a decision when you're mad and without thinking it all the way through....

Kayla*.

i like your advise and its true coz sometimes i do that and i never think... anyway for the situation of "Lost" ... most important is u admit ur fault and u are not insincere to say that. but next time u have to be cared ok coz all u do its possibly back on to u someday.. right "who knows"

Making amends can take the monkey off your back. What she chooses to do with that amends is her choice.

I understand what your saying, but in if you don't talk to her you will never know if she still has those feelings for you.

ur hurting and feeling guilty...

well, tell her ur sorry and hope she forgives you. its the polite thing to do...

hope u feel better... breakups do that... they make u feel down...

why dont you try to talk to her see if it hurt her as mucha s it did you and ask if she is over it now maybe it will help your heart heal