Is love really what it seems?...

  • ! CLAIREEE.
    18 years ago

    well, im 13. and i need to know what love is really like. i've never actually felt real love. except for a few times. but the boy doesnt love me back. or he just doesnt feel the same love as me. is all love the same?? and in the end, will..we all find someone? im really confused.

  • susan
    18 years ago

    okay...well before you read what i'm going to say...try not to take it personal alrites.

    Well the fact is...ur only 13 and still young. Its too soon for you to know if you are in love or not. You'll know it when you get older and wiser and understand what "real love" is. I know that everyone looks for it. So just be patient and the answer will come to you okay. And yes eventually you will find someone at the end...its just not the time yet. Well i don't think that all love is the same to me. But maybe to others. I hope this will clear out some questions you have in mind asking yourself about it. =)

  • Mitsuki
    18 years ago

    Love is very hard to explain. The meaning of love is different for everyone. I think if you should stop trying so hard to find love but to get love come to you. When the moment comes, the meaning of love will come to you.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Instead of searching for the answer for love, why don't you let it come to you. It will have more meaning.

    "i've never actually felt real love. except for a few times. but the boy doesnt love me back."

    ^^ The boys could never love you back because they don't know the meaning either. At the age of 13, there is no possible way you can find what real love is. Real love is being in a long relationship, where together you think about your future, and after living together for a while, you decide to get married. On you honeymoon you have sex, and it results in kids. Who you will love, as well as your spouse.

  • Deana
    18 years ago

    To say to you , you are only 13 doesn`t mean much to you because your feelings are just as real to you as if you were 30 , We can all only tell you our definition of what it is, I think this is mine,After getting to know that persons faults you still can`t imagine a life without them,When you look at them sleeping you want to touch their cheek and know that you will always be there for that person, when you are not with them your heart aches to see them, the feelings go on and on and on but sweetie I will tell you this you WILL know it when you feel it .

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    no. Love is a weird emotion. It has many defenitions. Love can be good or bad. It all depends. Love for a person could be real. Love for parents is always real. Love for friends could be real if you believe in loving your friends. so it all depends on so much