Totally Confused

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    Do I move on if the guy does not like me anymore or atleast says so? But we went out 7 or 8 times before and he said that he did once think that I was the right person meaning the one. Now I believe he is the right person. I mean he is in love with my best friend who he met through me but now I regret it. I feel like if she was not here he would love me still. He is my best friend. He loves my friend who does not love him at all. I love him so much but he just wants my friend who could care less. What do I do? I need help. Keep him or let him go as more than a friend. His friend says he loves me but I think he was just joking. Thanks

  • sophia
    18 years ago

    why would he be joking .... this is confusing but i think you should move on or at least act like it because people want what they cant have so if u act like u dun wan him i think he'll want u more

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    thanks for the advice. I will try it and see what happens. He would be joking. He has a bad sense of humor unfortunatly.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Move on. You can't keep waiting around for someone to like you. If he likes your friend, there is nothing you can do about it. Yeah it hurts, but you need to move on. There are so many guys out there.

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    I cannot move on. I know deep inside of him if I never introduced those too it would be he loved. She does not even want him and he knows that. He is just being stupid

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Wait... if you know you can't move on then why did you even ask for advice about it?

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    Of course you can move on. Go hang out with your other friends, keep yourself busy. It takes time, but you don't have to be stuck on one guy.

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    I know but I want to stick with this one guy. He is so special to me. No other guy could be better for me.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Well you wanted advice. We are giving you advice, but it's your choice whether to take it or not. Why ask, if you won't consider it.

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    I will consider it but it is not easy. So I am trying to get what I want at the same time and that is the guy. Duh!!

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    You asked if you should move on. The general advice you seem to be getting is yes, you should move on. Nobody told you it would be easy, it will take time.

    It may not be what you want to hear, but it's probably the smartest thing to do.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    ^ exactly