I Need A Lil Advice

Ok so I have a dilemma, I don't really think it's that big of a deal...but I'd like a lil help. If you read all this and answer back thank you so much I appreciate the advice! and if you need me to help you with something I'd love to help you with your advice too!

So there's a guy I really like. He's amazing, and he's gorgeous, and he makes me so happy....

But the problem is,is that im 16 and hes 20.
But I think he likes me,because he lives like an hour away from me and he comes all the way down on his days off to come and see me. And if I'm not hanging out with him I'm texting him on my phone or hes talking to me on aim, or he wants me to call him when he gets out of work... But isn't there a lil chance in there that he only likes me as a friend? and not as more?...Like I don't know what it is about him but hes so much different like other guys... and I really really like him....And I just want him to like me back.

And my sister embarasses the crap out of me and asked him like a week ago if he liked me,but all he keeps saying is I can't answer that...what does that mean?? hes confusing the crap out of me...

I've hung out with him 2 times this week and ive been on the phone/online/and texting him for the rest of time

Texting-while hes at work
Phone-when he gets home from work
Online-in the morning

would he want to waste his time talking to me like that if he didn't like me??

he know's I like him....well I've never really told him...But he knows trust me he's told me he knows....Should I just tell him ...have it come right out of my mouth? and maybe he'll see that I really like him??

Cause I really want to be with him......

And another problem is that my dad and mom don't really like him...and ya I really don't care what they think ya know...but I don't want them to like totally freak if I bring him places with me..Like to visit my friends or my grandparents or anything or even have him come to my house and visit ya know??

It's not that my mom hates him she just thinks that he is a bad guy because he's not in college, which he was but he had to quit because he had to go home to his parents for a while... he's gonna finish just not yet...and at the time hes working a job so isn't that good??

And my dad doesn't like him because he's 20 and come on every dad doesn't really like who there daughter likes at first until he really knows them ya know....

And I have another dilemma, my cousin and him, they weren't together or anything, they just did stuff together for fun because they got bored sometimes ya know.... But I personally think he started liking her...because now he won't really talk about her and hates when I talk about her...And he told me the other day he doesn't like her like that anymore just as a friend...and she likes him as a friend too....

But what if I was dating him and stuff....and then she starts having feelings for him or tries to take him away because shes jealous and she likes all the guys to herself(because thats the way my cousin is)...and what if his feelings for her come back and then he leaves me ya know...I don't know...

But I'd sure like some help so please and thank you I really need it...
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Steph

holy crap, thats a lot of stuff:P

Now to the advice...

Friend or boyfriend?: Ask him how he feels, and say how you feel. I don't think he would hang out with you that much, if he didn't care, I mean, come on. Over at your place, talking to him constantly: it speaks for itself.

Mom and dad: talk to them, tell them how you feel about th guy. Say that you can work things out with them, so they also are satisfied. They are probably just concerned about this guys pushing you to do stuff you don't want to.

Cousin: Talk to her, ask her to come with an honest answer, tell her how you feel about him. And if she doesn't understand, just ask her to stay out of it. Also, talk you your guy about it, warn him.

Thats the advice I can give. If your wondering more just email me;)

Awww Thanks :D,Thanks So Much That Helped A Lot :DThose Were Great Suggestions I'm Gonna Start Them Now To See If It'll Work Do You Need Any Advice On Anything I'd Be Willing To Help You With Anything :D

Anymore Suggestions Guys??

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Steph

Lol Thanks... I Know I'm Stuck In A Bunch Of Stuff...Thanks So Much For Your Advice :D
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Steph

yes...true but the law down here is if your 16 years old you can date someone up to 4 years older and he just fits it...so its perfect

Wow! You know it might just be that he is scared! You are only 16 and he is 20, he could really get introuble! Just sit down and talk to him or write him a letter. Tell him exactly how you feel and what you think of the two of you and ask him what he thinks. If he thinks you too could be more than friends, if you "talking" or if it's just a close friendship kinda thing. Good luck Hunny!

Hmm Thanks So Much :D I Really Appreciate You Guys Helping Me :D

I don't really have any advice on anything else, because I'm 16 and I also like a guy who's 20, but maybe he's saying "I can't answer that" because he knows you're young and doesn't want to hurt you in the long run or maybe he doesn't think you're ready and wants to wait to date you.. to be respectful I guess. But that's just my opinion.. no idea whether that means if he likes you or not.

Thanks :D

What Wings of an Angel said,is awesome advice.

And i tell You that age and love,have nothing in common,It's not important if You really love that person,just make sure he doesn't use You for Your cousin or something,might be painful.

Take care

--Anna xx

hey anna thanks so much :D if you ever need something let me know
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Steph

Hmmmm...Guys...I Don't Think...Any Of That Adviced Work...Hmmm...And I Don't Think He Likes Me...Because..........
Well Anyways...Thanks You Guys So Much For Trying I Appreciate It...You Guys Are The Best You All Mean So Much To Me... You Guys Are Sometimes Even Better Than My Real Friends...Thanks For All The Help....

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Steph