In love. ;/..But not sure if I should be..

Well,I've met this guy that i know for a year of two now,at the beginning.. we barely spoke to each other.. but now.. we began to talk more and more.. and whenever we spoke to each other,we couldn't stand but make each other laugh and make compliments about each other. But the problem is.. he's madly in love with this other girl..
Ps. [Brandon,the guy i love,lives in US,Ky,& his lover "gf" that he hasn't met yet lives in US,Arizona..& I live in Canada,Montreal] So yea.. I'm turning 15 but Brandon thinks i'm turning 16,so i didin't bother telling him the truth,since he's 19..For the past 5 days now.. i didin't feel the best cause i had other problems on my mind and.. i just don't know what i should do.. I mean,This guy stole my heart..but yet,he doesn't know it..Since i disapeared on him for the past couple of days,he thinks something happened to me,so he keeps on calling my cell phone.. but i won't pick up,cause i'm so upset on the fact that i'm jealous about his "Gf",cause not every guy would work his ass off to get money to go meet his lover..
So i'm just wondering,should I tell him?
And if I do.. will it damage our awesome friendship we had?..Will he stop talking to me?..

Hmm,feels like 'Oprah' stuff right there ^,hah.

bump

Alright, well I'm going to be honest, though I know it may suck to hear it. But know that this is your decision, and what you do is up to your own opinion not mine. However, saying that: If you are upset, and not answering him, you're worrying him - or maybe he's thinking that you don't want to talk to him anymore. Well, doing this is probably putting your friendship in jepordy (sp?) as it is. I would first tell him your real age, and see what he does. If he reacts horribly, then he probably likes you and could be upset that you lied to him before; however, if he takes it alright, then it could mean both, he likes you and accepts you no matter what, and/or (yes, 'or') you are only in the friends zone, and telling him about how you feel is only going to make him feel bad and screw things up....
I myself have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend was talking to a girl that lived closer to him than I do, and after he met her, they became good friends... And then better friends. He cheated on me... He chose me in the end, and (in some unfortunate ways) I took him back... Point is, if you guys do end up meeting eachother,and he doesn't choose you - don't screw up his relationship by liking him so much that you're the other girl. And if he chooses you (if you go through with telling him), then make sure that the other girl he likes, won't become ...well, 'the other girl'...
Long distance relationships (in general : friendship and bf/gf relationships) are hard as hell, and my personal advice is to get yourself out of it as soon as possible... However, I know plenty of people who have been successfull and survived their distance. So in Any case, you have to Know that you love him enough to hold on, and not hurt him the way you could be doing right now.

Ok well, there's so much more blabbing I Could do, but for some reason I think I'm only going to start contradicting myself and confusing you more than you may already be. I'm tired, it's past bedtime, and this situation is a matter of your heart - only it will know what you want to do. And there isn't Always a right or wrong decision, so don't worry about making a mistake so much as making a difference... Think about how it would affect him, you, her, all relationship status...

I'm sure I didn't help... I don't member what I said... Oh this isn't good... lol but when I speak I speak what I think, so hopefully I got the point out.
The best of luck to you.

Sorry if this was a big kitty-litter box (Or in more understandable terms: a load of...) to you. Best wishes.
-Stefhy