Should I.. or shouldn't I?.. ;/..

  • Anna
    18 years ago

    Well,I've met this guy that i know for a year of two now,at the beginning.. we barely spoke to each other.. but now.. we began to talk more and more.. and whenever we spoke to each other,we couldn't stand but make each other laugh and make compliments about each other.

    But the problem is.. he's madly in love with this other girl..
    Ps. [Brandon,the guy i love,lives in US,Ky,& his lover "gf" that he hasn't met yet lives in US,Arizona..& I live in Canada,Montreal] So yea.. I'm turning 15 but Brandon thinks i'm turning 16,so i didin't bother telling him the truth,since he's 19..For the past 5 days now.. i didin't feel the best cause i had other problems on my mind and.. i just don't know what i should do.. I mean,This guy stole my heart..but yet,he doesn't know it..Since i disapeared on him for the past couple of days,he thinks something happened to me,so he keeps on calling my cell phone.. but i won't pick up,cause i'm so upset on the fact that i'm jealous about his "Gf",cause not every guy would work his ass off to get money to go meet his lover..
    So i'm just wondering,should I tell him?
    And if I do.. will it damage our awesome friendship we had?..Will he stop talking to me?..

    I know it might sound stupid this whole story,Them online dating and me being super jealous.. but I just need a little advice.. cause i'm going through a hard time..
    Thanks..

    --Anna.

  • Carlee Ann
    18 years ago

    Think about it.

    He claims to be "madly in love" with this other girl who he hasn't even met yet. That is not love. Love requires compassion and knowing each other inside and out. You can't know a person over the phone.

    And as sad as the honest truth is, what are the chances you and him will actually ever meet? The statistics do not look good.

    I do think you should tell him, there shouldn't be any secrets. And if you don't, you'll always have to wonder what would happen if you had told him.

    It shouldn't damage the friendship if he really cares.

    Just be careful with your heart. :)

    Car

  • Anna
    18 years ago

    Hmm,i Guess so,thanks alot ^__^.
    Well,i guess he's madly in love,that's why he's working his ass off to go live with her and all..but I have a feeling that somewhat.. she's cheating on him.. but i don't wanna sound rude/whore'ish and telling him "Omg.. she's cheating on him,You should totaly get in a relationship with me,You know?!" so yea ;/.