As A Boyfriend, Or Just As A Friend? plz help

Well, I'm dating a guy called Christian.(im sure i told you about him) and this weekend coming up is our 2nd month together. me and him were friends when i was dating this other guy a few months ago, then after he broke up with me i got with christian 2 weeks later. Sometimes i feel as if me and christian dont suit as couples, sometimes i think we suit as just friends. i dunno. i feel confused about it. i love Him, i really do. but at the moment im not sure if i love him as a friend or as a boyfriend. i love being with him and spending time with him. I mean, he's more decent than all the other guys i've EVER been with. so yeah. someone give me advice!! :(

If you love him, truly, stick together. Only you can truly tell if you feel like friends or like lovers.

//T.L.//

I think you should follow your heart and listen and watch all the signs that come.. you might not realize them but you will eventually...stick to your heart and do what feels right!
love alwyas
autumn

if you are not sure about the love you have for him..

than i think it's only friendship..

i just think..don't keep it in ur brain!!..hehe

Only you can decide that. Do you really love him, and if you do, then you wouldn't want to let him go. If he is a decent boy, then why wouldn't you want to be with him. Why would you consider him more of a friend? Stay with him, maybe your eyes will be opened and you'll have an easier time deciding.

well....as for me it depends on how long you have known him. If he is a great friend to you then...yeah I'll have to say stick to him. You'll never know what will happen. So follow your heart like everyone says on here. =)

Well...You put urself into a ....kinda...hard situation. Because the biggest mistake a person can do is to date a friend, coz it is true that it is easy to fall inlove with a good friens, ...but...God forbid....If you fight, it will never be the same again...and going back to being friends is gonna be really hard for both of you! So you have to chose....What is more important to u...Your friendship or your Bf...

My dad said if he cant trust me he wont let me see Christian, He'll make us break up, and if i keep being all depressed all the time and cutting myself like my "stupid" mum(or so he calls her) he's gonna send me to live with my mum, which is like.. 35 minutes away from my dad's/my school/christian/friends! he said "i'll fucking send you to your mothers and then see how much you get to see your bf aye, you know nothing about anything anyway."

now you add the cutting.. why the hell do people cut anyways? it improves nothing.. makes you feel stupid in the end.. embarassed as well. but if it makes you so depressed, though it shouldn't since i see no reason why it would, break it off. simple. don't do things that'll hurt you, follow human nature... goodness.

If I were Christian, I would hate to be in this relationship. A girl that cuts, that's pretty gross. I'd also be a bit afraid the slightest jesture could end up in your cutting. I would hate to say something to you, make you cry, and then you cut yourself, I'd feel bad. That's why I'd dump you in an instant, and if you cut, I wouldn't have to feel bad anymore.

Cutting, pfft. My shit in the toilet serves more purpose.