is 5 years alot?

  • Gentry
    18 years ago

    I really like this guy that goes to my church. He moved here from Florida about 2 years ago and had been coming to my church since then. He's smart, sweet, funny, cute, everything else that I look for in a guy. One problem... he's 20 and I'm 15. I fell like a little kid around him sometimes because he teaches my sunday school class sometimes but then I feel like we are the same age most of the time but I don't know I we could date because he is 5 years older and I don't want to tell him how I feel because I am the old fashioned type and I don't want to risk our friendship. HELP!

  • Gentry
    18 years ago

    Thanks.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    I firmly believe that if it's God's will, then it will happen. Like for instance, I know this has nothing to do with love, but today I was registering for school and I wanted my schedule a certain way, but it turned out that I couldn't have it that wya because of policy or whatever. So when I got the schedule I could have, I thought about it and I realized that it really is the perfect schedule for me! I then realized that I was trying to have it my own way instead of God's way, which in the end turned out to be the best way for me. If you just wait and desire to be led by God then just leave it up to Him. He's got a plan for your life and sooner or later everything will come into place. When I was 13 I thought I was gonna marry a guy that was 20 because he was basically everything that you described above. But a few years later I realized that God has someone much better for me!!

    Hope that helps..

    Take Care Hunn,
    Sarah-Joy

  • Gentry
    18 years ago

    I believe that too. Its good to see that someone out there does too!!