He never told me!

I've recently posted something on here about how I like this dude and this dude likes me but my ex is getting in the way. I finally had a talk with him (my crush) yesterday when he gave me a ride home and I kind of freaked on him. I punched and hit him kind of hard. Reasons why because he has a picture of his girlfriend (he say its his wife) on his dashboard. I yelled and screamed at him because he never told me he had a girlfriend and he knows how much I like him and he led me on to think that something could happen between us. Now I'm left with all these feelings for him and it's hard to look at him becuz now he knows everything (we work 2gether). I know I have to get over him but I'm not sure how. I really like him and I know he's not gonna leave his girl for me. HELP!!!

wish i could help...but all i can say is good luck with everything hopefully it will turn out for the best...stay strong.

He never should've done that to you, obviously he's very capable of keeping secrets very well. So basically he's not trustworthy!

I know this is cliche advice of how to get over a guy but surprisingly it's very effective, look around for any other guy that happens to be remotely interested in you and you wouldn't mind dating.

Things will adventually smooth over and you'll look back at this and just see the first guy was just a douchebag.

just forget him!!...

before you start dating again...

um, you might want to work on that anger.

take some serious 'you' time.

learn to live your life without love. and be content with that.

I mean, yeah, I've been there too. but christ -- no wonder you're single.

Drop him, he isn't worth it.

wow thats crazy but did you ask if he had a girlfriend??? dont sweat it you deserve someone who's going to be straight forward with you its just a matter of time till tou meet someone who's honest and will sweep you off your feet!!! good luck

No I didn't ask if he had a gurlfriend. Now that I look at it I should of asked up front. But thanks you guys from the bottom of my heart for your advice. I truly appreciate it.

Yeah, you need to move. He isn't worth. I can't stand guys who lead you on, and then hurt you. i understand what you're going through. You can do so much better. Good luck.

Well, you over reacted on the girlfriend thing. Try to take things a bit more calmly next time Darling. And if he knew you had feelings, he should have mentioned his girlfriend. But, move on with life, that's all there really is to do.

take up kick boxing that will get your anger away and you might meet guy #2 while having fun and exercising!!

what ever you do dont start an affair with him, it'll mess your head up even more and not only you will get hurt eventuall y but his gf will-the girl who doesnt know how much of a bum hole her bf is...

october xx

go to a gym and work out all your anger at a very pathetic excuse for a man