Is this what love is like?

  • Sarah
    18 years ago

    I feel like I can tell him anything, I trust him. I'd do anything for him. No matter how bad a day I'm having just talking to him makes me feel happy and warm. When I'm with him I feel like nothing else matters.
    Does that sound like love thats how I feel and I'm wondering if its all in my head that I love him.
    But I've never felt like this before he means more to me then anyone

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    you're 14, that's all i'm going to say.

  • Sarah
    18 years ago

    so? a lot of people say "oh your too young you don't know what you want" even if you know what you want that doesn't mean your going to fall in love with that person. Just like you can't make yourself falling in love with something you can't stop yourself either, its a feeling it just happens.
    Another one is "be realistic" well love isn't about being realistic its about doing anything and everything you can to see that other person happy.
    If you have a problem with these topics you can ignore them =]
    -edit- and I just looked at your profile your 15 who are you to judge?

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    well ya i think it's love!!

  • Ban Me!
    18 years ago

    you would,

    cos your a kid too....

  • Mousie
    18 years ago

    At 14, it's hard to say... more of an infatuation and maybe not true love... basically, no matter how old you are, you should know in your heart that it's love... they're all right, love really can't be put into words, and there's really no guidelines to exactly what love is, which makes it the hardest emotion to recognize. For me, what I always say to myself and to others, time will tell if it's true love, and sometimes waiting is the hardest part. I wish you all the luck! As yes, I'm only 15, don't go critcizing me people, there's not always logic and reasoning when it comes to love, trust me i've tried it before b/c i'm a very logical person who needs to see proven answers!

  • Gizmo
    18 years ago

    im not going to critise you like most people have about your age, but apart of me would agree with them, but i wouln't be one to talk as i was engaged at 17. Although what you describe actually sounds like "puppy love" and although i hate to agree with the majority you will probally grow out of it.

  • hisbabygirl14
    18 years ago

    It may be love, yes. Who are we to tell you if you are in love or not though? That is something you have to know for yourself. We dont know exactly what's going on in your head or your heart, but in my opinion it's quite possible it could be love.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    ^ I agree with Brianna; But age IS more than a number and it affects a lot. Sadly it affects things that it shouldn't but there are things that age should definately be accounted for. Age doesn't always measure your maturity or whatever but it has a lot to do with the stages that you go through in life that do affect your maturity. I think everyone should keep that in mind, too.

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    i think the best way to say is PUPPY LOVE"...
    co'z something tells me it won't last long like LOVE"

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    "and I just looked at your profile your 15 who are you to judge?"

    ^ I never said i'm "in love" now did i? I don't even know what love is yet. I'm not judging anybody. I'm just saying that at 14, you shouldn't be saying it's love when odds are it's just infatuation. Why rush things? You're still young. Oh and by the way, it's you're not your. At 14, you should know that.

    You have the rest of your life ahead of you, and you're already saying you're "in love". Yet, there are so many people you have yet to meet. What makes you think this is love? Love is more than just a feeling.

  • Let Me Be Your Happily Ever After
    18 years ago

    i dont want to descriminate against your age, i have friends who i truly believe are in love.

    its just hard to tell the first time, you dont have anything to compare it to.

    just remember that your 14, and if it is love, be careful cause chances are ...its not gonna last forever.

  • meryeva
    18 years ago

    uh its not love dear its a crush sorry:( u r to young and so is he

  • Bitt3rSw33t
    18 years ago

    Ouch! Well, my best friend of many years, started dating this guy (2 years older than her) in high school, she had just turned 14. She used to tell me she's gonna marry this guy and that they're in love. I used to not pay much attention, although I must say I did think it was kinda cute. About a year ago, at age 20, she married him...They've had their rough times, but I must say, now I think they're one of the strongest couple I know...That's just for the people who think love at a young age is impossible...Never say never....But as for this topic, it's very nice that you feel that way, but you shouldn't have to wonder what love is when you're in love, you should know it...So maybe it might be growing into something....You're to say whether it is love or not...not us... :-)

  • Whispering*Willow(Mercedes)
    18 years ago

    yes, that sounds like love to me...that is how I feel...just talking to him lights up my day.
    oxox Mercedes

  • Dacey Flame
    18 years ago

    Wow. Thats pretty much what sets me off right there. Just because your young doesn't mean you feel emotion any different then older people. Geesh.
    You very well could be in love. Or maybe your just in lust? Prolly lust. Or maybe I'm simply jealous=P