HOW do I forget ABOUT him???

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    HOW do I forget ABOUT him???
    we were on and off all the time
    he calls whenever im slippin away from him because he wants to go have fun and mess with all these gurls...
    when he calls i want to ignore him but i cant i dont want to i just wish that with every last phone call he will tell me he wants to be with me and he's done playing games...but when?? i want to move on i do but why im i so weak whwn it comes to him... please give me advice i really need it>>>

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    thanks for the advice!!! but i dont think im in love beacuse love shouldnt feel like this!! idk i m confused. i would play at his own game but i dont want to hurt someone else just to get back at him!!

  • Leah
    18 years ago

    it isn't love, its lust.

  • Bitt3rSw33t
    18 years ago

    Well, I don't know whether you're in love, or whether it's lust. All I can tell is he is disrespecting you. You don't deserve to be treated that way. Stay firm to your ground, demand respect, see what happens. If you keep talking to him, getting back with him, you're allowing him to do this to you...sorry to say, but you're playing a huge role in disrespecting yourself. Men will only do, what you allow them to.

    And maybe I should take my own advice...LoL

  • Lecrissa
    18 years ago

    hon i got no real advice other than to stay bizzy for awail if you don't want to play the game or hurt someone ealse just be unavailable to him.. As to playing the game you would need a gay man in order not to hurt him and his partner would have to know too. Ive played the game and your right in the end it does'nt feel right to do it.