is life supposed to hurt this much?

it seems like nothing ever gose right... i hate being alone but i usualy am, i also hate being the third weel, like my friends all have b/f or g/f and i juist hang out with them cuse my dislike of being alone overrideds the dislike of being the third weel. im afraid that all my friends are going to start to ahte me since i hang around them so much and their trying to do stuff with their b/fs. i cant help but think the reasin i dont have a b/f is my weight, i weigh 190 lbs and im only 5'4 i dont look extreamly fat its kinda ballenced but im still fat.. its stupid sounding but it still bugs me. and it dosnt help that i REALLY like my best friends boy friend

Darling life was never supposed to be easy...we should just take it as it is and be greatful for the few simple things that make it worthwhile. Remember it is not how we succeed but how we rise from our failures that counts, stay strong and just think that it can't exactly get any worse :o)

Except in your case where your creating your own mess...only you can clean it up :o)

hahaha...thats nice-give advice then blame her..

its not your weight thats the problem, its your head....you seem a little messed up.try and sort your head out before you go trying to find your heart...your friends will stay there and be there for you so dont worry about losing them.

take your concentration off your friends bf because THAT will cause trouble and heartache for everyone-and whats a betting they all side with your friend!

join some clubs and groups-make new friends, it really isnt that hard.

do a p&c list, you cant go wrong with one of them!

october xx

You need to stop pittying yourself and get out there and get a boyfriend if you want one so badly. If you have confidence in yourself, then other will see that and pick up on it. People are alot more fun to be around when they have a good attitude. Like the person above me saide, join stuff, you'll make new friends and maybe eve find a boyfriend:) Well good luck.

--Steph

Nobody said what life was "supposed" to do. And self pity isn't going to make it easier.

First off, you need to learn how to be happy with yourself. I used to be the third wheel with my friends when i was 13. You need to stop being so negative, and put yourself out there. It works, trust me. Not all guys care about girls weight. You're not even fat. All of my closest friends are overweight by maybe 15 or 20lbs, but they have, or have had b/f's. Therefore, your fat theory doesn't make any sense. All you need to do is be yourself, and start being more out there around guys. Everyone has a hard time in life. No one has it easy. I gurantee everyone on this website has at least one, if not more, problems in their lives.