what to do....

just wanting a little advice is all. ive known someone for quite a while now, i dont believe i am in love with them at this point, but i know i care very deeply for them. im in Germany and its someone i have never met. we're miles and miles apart and i have no idea what to do.

Mike

uh theres nothing you can do... or at least nothing i can see for you to do without anymore information. you're kinda brief in describing your problem

well, i want to start a relationship, but i think its a bad idea. shes had bad luck here recently and i dont really know how she feels. and im wayyyy to scared to ask.

i have no idea how to tell her how i feel. or how to even bring the subject up. any advice would be great.

Mike

Do you guys flirt while talking, i mean, there has so be some sort of sign that shes at least slightly interested, right? Just casually talk and you say she's had bad luck lately, right? If she's having a bad day say something like "I'm here for you to talk to" or "If I was there I'd do my best to make you smile"

Anything like that and see how she responds. Those are always ways I can tell if a guy is questioning whether or not to tell me he's interested, that way if she kind of blows it off, you know that maybe she's just not interested.

i did that. but i am no good at reading responses. i dont know what it means when she says certain things.

Well...what does she say..? I guess thats where we'll start.