I need some ADVICE!! PLEASE HELP!!!

HOW do I forget ABOUT him???
we were on and off all the time
he calls whenever im slippin away from him because he wants to go have fun and mess with all these gurls...
when he calls i want to ignore him but i cant i dont want to i just wish that with every last phone call he will tell me he wants to be with me and he's done playing games...but when?? i want to move on i do but why im i so weak whwn it comes to him... please give me advice i really need it>>>

i want to move on i do but why im i so weak whwn it comes to him...

even i was like dat weak..but now no more...it seemse like u still like/love him!!..now dat's trouble!!..
RED ALERT!!

it takes time to forget ppls..
so don't force ur self!!..to forget!!..

You can never forget someone who meant a lot to you. However, you can move on. He doesn't seem worth your time sweetie. If he calls you, don't answer it; or, answer it and tell him you're busy and you will call him back. Then, don't call him back and see what he does about that. I was weak when it came to someone too, but i stood up and realized i had to do this myself, and i did. It's okay, it will take time, but don't give up. Make him work for you, and if he doesn't want to, then he isn't worth it.

I agree on the fact that you will never "forget" about him. You obviously care deeply about this guy, so you can't forget him, you just need to move on.. Find some other guy who is worth your time and energy.

And btw, chances are since you guys were off and on all the time, that even if he did want to be with you, it would just be another circle of off and on... so, really, just find someone else... as hard as that seems.

~BJ~

I can only give you the advice:

Save yourself from self-destruction and end with him.
It is easily said from someone not involved but only then you can give rational advices.

A guy that has other girls beside you is not worth to get your love. Love means that it is impossible for this guy to think of any other girl than you! This is no basement for a relationship.

Please go the step and throw away pictures of him. Delete his cellphone number, think twice before you call him and think about what he did with you.

From my own experience:
The first week is the hardest. In the second one it still hurts but it gets better from then. Meet friends, go shopping but dont stay home alone. Listen to loud and fast music - nothing that let you be able to think about him.

i have deleted his number and threw his pictures away, and ended our friendship but everything reminds me of him idk its like i cant forget and i know you cant never forget your past but i want to move on....i do..but every guy that comes my way i cant seem to let them in as tho i dont trust them because of what HE did to me...i always find something wrong with the other guy like i compare them or something its weird i wish things were different but i know i cant show him what hes doing to me i never called him to say i miss him or nuthing he alwys finds a way...his cuzzins our my best friends..it seems like he will always be there.
idk this is so confusing...thanks for the advice anymore plz give me it

any more advice? i really need it!!!!

i went through this. and i can honestly say i have kind of got over it and carried on my life but he will always be there in my life. after he broke up with me he started calling me and ssaying he was on a date with another girl making me feel so jealous and really self obsessed. it made me do stupid things. and made me hurt myself but dont do this!!! we are worth more than guys like this and i know we cant forgive or forget but we can do our best to try and take our mind off them. i evenually blocked all contact from us and got a new boyfriend who knew what had happened but he understood perfectly and helped me through it and so did some of my closest friends....just ignore him cut off his calls and totally ignore him, it does work sweetie you just have to be patient and the pain will soon pass. trust me. take this from someone who has already had experience

sarah

good luck and remember all of our advice xxx

he is not worth, forget all about him move on coz lot of guys worthy than him.. dont worry someday u can met better than him. i know its not easy but u dont have to be martyr be strong ok