forget her to teach her a lesson she will never learn? please he

i have been ripping my self apart. i have been broken up with my ex gf for around 3 months. she moved on to some guy, and now another. we have only hung out 3 times this summer and rarly talk. she always has an excuse for everything. and it never seems like she cares. but once in a while she will say she misses me and still thinks about being with me. i think shes just leading me on some times.

but heres my problem. she wants to be my friend so bad and idk if i should be friends with her or not. she has lied to me alot and is with some other guy. but should i just forget about it all, and be friends. some times i just never want to talk to her again so she will relise wat she did, and wat she lost. but i dont feel thats right. im so confused on wat to do. be her friend and forget the past or never talk to her again.

if i never talk to her again, i wont have any problems with her other then missing her. and wondering if this is the right thing to do.

if im friends with her, i might fall back for her. and she might not want to get back with me. or she might want to get back with me but then i will always have to worry about her lies. i could also just be friends with her and have alot of fun, but i think i can just be friends with her.

please help!!

oh my god i'm going through the same thing right now!!! well im in the same boat ..so plz give avice for me tooo!!! Everything you just wrote i know what you mean i dont know what to choose!!!

Her friendship doesn't seem like it's worth much. I'm sure you wasted your summer wondering what could have been instead of meeting new people and hanging out/having fun. You'll find other people, you'll make other friends. You may find someone worth dating. Forget her.

yeah, i did spend most of my summer, wondering. and i wish i didnt. but now im back on my feet and having fun. each day i care less if were friends or not. soo i guess in the end its best i just forget. thanks everyone

i think i'd be nice beig friends agian..but not too close frens..just frens..you get it?..

you can say yes, being frens is ok..

by saying yes..you can talk to her when ever you want..or ignor her when ever you want!!..haha on her face!!..

seeee?.,,did you get it?...god!!..

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well finding new girl is also a great plan..but if you don't say yes to ur ex of being frens..she'll keep having that frens excuse-to call you/talk to you..and will keep bugging you..so say yes to her frenship..and continue yyour life!!