The usual: Relationship Issues

  • David
    18 years ago

    Hello.

    My name is David and i am currently in a relationship.

    It's been going fantastically since the beginning, yet a few days ago she started acting a bit... differently.

    I sat down with her in the courtyard of the highschool i am currently attending and i held her hand. She couldn't look me in the eye like she used to, and she (not once) told me that she cared about me. This is very unusual because usually she is contantly reminding me about how much i mean to her, as i am reminding her.

    At the lunch period, about 3 hours after our last meeting, she had her head down on the table she sat with all her friends. I kindly leaned over and said:

    "I don't want to look like a pri*k infront of all of your friends, so i'm going to ask that you come with me so that we can talk privately. I am not leaving you, don't worry."

    She got up, i grabbed her hand and lead her away from her friends. The whole walk she didn't look at me, her eyes glued to the concrete. When we got to the shade i told her everything that was on my mind. How much she meant to me, how i felt about her ignoring me, etc etc.

    She didn't say many words, but when she did talk all that she said was "I'm okay."

    I don't know what's going on, i want to know what is going on from a female's point of view.

    Thank you to everybody who is willing to help.

    David.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Alright, this is from my expierience, so i hope it helps. Something is definitely wrong. It might be something she's afraid to tell you. It could be depression, or something else. I got that way with my ex at one point. I was able to tell him things that were on my mind, but there were times i wouldn't be able to get things out. My advice to you is to tell her that she can tell you whatever is bothering her. Tell her you're there for her. Tell her you know something is wrong because she hasn't been herself, and that you want to help in whatever way you can. Has she tried to avoid you at all, or pushed you away? Has she tried to distance herself at all? If that's the case, she might just need a little space. Sometimes i felt like i needed a little space, so i would try and avoid my ex. I hope that helps a little.

  • David
    18 years ago

    Just forget the post, we broke up. Sigh.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Im sorry to hear that :[
    What happened?

  • David
    18 years ago

    She... she was sending me mixed signals, she started yelling at me, i got upset, she got upset. I told her i couldn't handle it, now she is begging for me to come back... Are all girls like this? Or am i going crazy?

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    A lot of girls are like this, but all you can really do is talk to her as a friend for now, ask her what has really been bothering her. Figure it out, and go from there.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Ohh geezz...s lot of girls go through mood changes, it's natural. You should reallt talk to her and try to work things out.

  • Miss Kay
    18 years ago

    Hmm, maybe she really is okay but she's feeling a little down. You know girls do have this thing, oh what's it called...PMS. And if that's the case, then you need to be there for her and comfort her because some of the emotions running through her right now may not be her fault.

    I dont know...but thats one possibility.