Doers anyone here not know there father?

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    just wondering i dont know my dad and i dont really know anyone whos in the same position ive been in so i could talk about it....its not that important just wonderin ow people would feel and if i should feel the way i do

    who knows im just babbling on lol

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Well i've never had my father in my life. I have seen him, and he has seen me, but we don't know anything about one another. When i was 5, he told my i was a mistake and never meant to be born. I really can understand what your going through because i only grew up with a mom who was there. My dad never wanted me so he stayed out of my life.

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    My father died fourteen years ago, so I never really got the chance to know him. =/ If you ever need someone to talk, you can send me a private message and I'll reply as soon as I can.

    ~BJ~

  • Rheingold
    18 years ago

    My dad died on December 26, 2004, and I only saw him maybe 10 times in my life. His liver failed him due to alcohol issues.

    At almost 20 years old, I often wonder "what if I had a relationship with him?", but try not to think of it much.

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    >>>>>>>>well i never knew my father because he was married and had kids when he cheated on his wife with my mother..she got pregnant and he said he would be there but never was plus my mom moved from where he lives now...at age 9 my mom went to see him and he said he wanted a dna test and that he would help my mom out but he didnt want his family to find out...Crazy right? my mom left she said she did it without him mind as well finish...but i started asking for him...i want to meet him...is it wrong to want when he was never thre i just want him to see me and regret not being there and see that i made it...i want him to know that i suffered because of his mistake
    sometimes i ask myself how could you miss something you never had?

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    ??? anyone?

  • To Love and Be Loved
    18 years ago

    I have a father buht I don't want to know him anymore. My father is waste of space and I wish my Mum had just done it without him. I would have been better off!

  • broken reflection
    18 years ago

    i don't know my father only my brothers' father... my dad left when i was just a baby :(

  • Maria
    18 years ago

    My mom divorced my father because he abused her while she was pregnant with me and when i was born and he broght home a girl while me and my mom were home. He was a drunk and I haven't seen or heard from him for 14 yrs. the i heard from my mom that he remarried and i have a half brother and sister. so i don't know. And still till today my mom still talks about wat he did to her. he hasn't even paid childsupport for 14 yrs. so yeah. o well

  • Catherine Stephens
    18 years ago

    Ok I know exactly how you guys feel I've never kown my father. Except for the one I have now. All I know is that the father I have now isn't my real one. You just have to set your mind on finding him cuz that's what I'm gonna do. When I ma 18 I am so finding him. You just have to hold out till the timeis right. I still haven't gotten the courage to ask my parents about my dad so I guess you just have to know what's right or wrong and choose the right time. Yeah it's hard but trust me if you can hold out this long then you can hang on enough to find out.

    to everybody

  • Navy SweetHeart
    18 years ago

    i have never met my dad i want more than anything so i can tell him how much i needed him and how mad i am for him not being here but yeah i know the feeling......

  • Tammie
    18 years ago

    My parents divorced when i was about 4. I hardly ever see my father. I haven't seen him in 3 years and it's a coincidence that I'm seeing him tomorrow. It's kind of scary actually. But yeah.. it should go alright. But i know how it feels to not have a father figure and all that...

  • RainbowSlider
    18 years ago

    My folks divorced before I was three but I got to know them individually better but to know them-Who actually knows anybody?