Unloved

How can a person who believes that love is life, be unloved and still live?

There is always more to life than love.And there is no one on this earth that is unloved.Everyone has at least one person that loves them.

I get that way sometimes, but I think that out of the seven something billion people on this earth, there is one person, who I'll probably never meet, but anyway, that one person, if he saw me, would think that I was perfect, beautiful, in every way that mattered. Somewhere out there, there is someone who thinks that I am the epitome of beautiful... the meaning of perfection.
You may not be a Christian, but if you are, keep in mind that God loves you.

My cat loves me :-)

//T.L.//

Loving people isn't enough. you also have to love the people who love you.
this is not always as simple.

Because of hope

i agree they have hope! and everyone must know that one person loves them more than they know

God does love me, my family and friends love me but they cannot kiss, caress, or LOVE me...in that sense, thats my point, its just so hard to find love, hmm, love is so exhausting

^^You mean, like a boyfriend? Sex?
Your family can most certainly kiss you on the cheek, and a hug is worth more than you can imagine.
I say wait and see. There is love overflowing if you just look in the right places.
Personally, I receive more love than I could ever possibility, and certainly don't, deserve from my pets. My cats and my dogs show such affection, trust, loyalty, it brings tears to my eyes.

//T.L.//

as in boyfriend love not pet or family love even those are nice to have around but i want boyfriend love :(

you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else

^^ Probably true.
If it's any consolation, I don't have a boyfriend either, and it has taken some time, but I've finally realized that love takes its time, and when it arrives, it is always perfect, when you truly need it, not when you want it.

//T.L.//

thanku

I don't know what it is but it just seems I'm missing out on so much... its a yearning for a romantic love... I just can't help it

Ditto. I don't know... I'm willing to wait. I get the feeling that I'm not lovable, that people simply CANNOT love me.. but I have good friends, and the most wonderful pets I could hope for... boys can wait.

//T.L.//

thats now always true. cause if someone keeps hurting you for all your life you lose yourself and your passion for anything. i mean i had 2 boyfriends. one was bi and he used me to get hooked up with my guy friend and the other was straight. but he hurt me the most cause i thought he loved me but all he wanted was my body. it seems like every guy that i've met has used me. but that was then. now i have to be careful casue of last boyfriend lets just say he wanted something from me and i didnt want it. but by force he did and ripped my pants, shirt, and something else. so love can be blind. i just hate it cause we take chances and get stabed on our backs. so why do we even move on.

You're too young to believe that you are missing out on love.

Give it time. When it comes, you'll know.

You'll never forget it either.

Kalika

Thanku...

because love will find you.

Why do you feel unloved? Family? Guys? Friends?

Guys :'(

Don't worry about guys. We don't REALLY need them... Only for reproductive purposes. ;-)

someone who is unloved cannot live... for me.. i always feel unloved cuz my ex said that he loved me to death and he wouldn't trade me for anygirl in the world.. but yet he cheated on me and dumped me for her... i am unloved, when i was loved i was alive and alert, now, im a wreck i feel not alive, nor dead... i sit and linger for the day that ims aved from my shithole people call life... u see, when im loved im alive but when im unloved like now... im nothing.. not dead nor alive....

Broken reflection:

You 'yearn for romantic love' and no doubt feel that life revolves around this notion...every hollywood movie would have you believe that, also.
The truth is: It doesn't. When love comes to town, as Bono says, I'm gonna catch that train. Real problems begin in love like jealousy and betraylal...not all, but most.

Get on with what you're doing and enjoy yourself before love comes and ruins it all for you. That's ironic.

Well at the moment I am not loved by a guy and I truly believe love makes the world go around...so should I not live??

Love and beauty waits for us all just around the corner.....make sure your eyes are open to see it.

No one is unloved, and love is a two way street. If you don't feel as though you are loved (which I can gurantee you actually are) then Im sure that you yourself have love for someone or something else...

I just want to know the feeling, even if I have to face love's consequences

i have been in love a couple of times. they all ended horribly, but i would do it all again just to feel appreciated again. to feel someones warm embrace again. five years now and still waiting

I have the feeling no-one will ever love me because I am not good enough to be loved.... I have an aura that pushes people away when all I want is them to think that I'm pretty, and that they want to kiss and hug mee... but I know from the depths of my heart nothing like that will ever happen... I'm too ugly to be loved.

Things happen but because of what we see flashing in front of us on the TV screen, we think that there will be love when the depression and realization is gone. For some, they know love will never come because they have been hurt so many times.

.... Broken reflection...

Some one somewhere, is waiting for you.....

Bumping up, because of the spam threads.