what if he says "i love you"?

ok, you've probably seen this commercial on tv, but just in case...

a girl and a guy were on a date (they're all dressed up) and the girl asks if they were ever gonna get married (they're not teenagers) and the guy says "THANK YOU". the girl was all "well, you've never said that to me before" as if she was so happy she was gonna break down and cry. "imagine what a simple thank you can do." yep that was the commercial.

so... if your boy/girlfriend told you that s/he loves you and you feel rushed or you don't want to say i love you until you mean it, what do say in reply to them?

and... if a guy proposes to you and again, you feel rushed and unsure, how do you respond?

erm- just wondering here... nothing more, nothing less. ^__^

just say it, well Ive been datin my gf for some time and lol I already posted 'hmmm "I love you"' topic before and got some replies but hmm I dunno I only dated her for a month but I think Im heavily fallin in love as in I cant stand without her well I dunno cuz I see her like once or twice a week so ya know I dotn wanna complicate things much...

okie but hmmm if I was in a situation like that I would probably just say sumfin 'I think we should slow down with this' or 'lets take this one step at a time and not rush into anthing' I dunno (I just made those lines up :D) well hmmm I dont think I would look for an answer that would confuse them and not answer the question like 'Thank You' or 'Awww thats so sweet'... lol, but hmm I would just say it cuz well if ya dont say anythin... ya are first of all not in control and 2nd of all ya have nooooo idea where ya gonna end up

Well if ur told "i love you" and u dont know what to say say how u feel.If u feel taht u love them say or if u really care 4 them but not sure if ist true love then tell theem how u feel that u care 4 them deeply and u dont wnat to say i love jsut quite yet but do make it clear that they do matter to you or they will b hurt and think ur feelings arent what they thought.If ur proposed to an dnot rdy well say ur not rdy u must have been with that person a hot minute 4 them to want to propse so since you ve come that far in the relatiosnhip just say how you u feel.doesnt mean you have to get ammried right away when someone proposes soem pl are engaged for years till tehre both rdy.Engagement is jsut a promise of what will come in the future. Best thing to do in eitehr situation is just to b honest with ur partner

A yr and a hlf is a long time def can understand why the guy feels he can say i love you.My view fromhow u take things is u seem not to b wanting to commit.Some ppl arent comminnent ppl but u have been together with ur bf a long time u should sit down and tell him u liek to go very slow b4 taking giant leaps liek i love you.Laughing not agod think tho =/ might hurt his feelings if u do that.Tell him u care 4 him but u wnat to know every single thing b4 takign the love leap if he loves you hell understand.Lol with me was enegaed 3-4 mths into datiing my hus so i guess everyone goes at the pace of hwat feels right to them.Good luck .

aaargh I have had soo many guyz tell me they love me. And I think they were serious bout I dont like to take my chances! haha it just sux coz u feel all speechless. I usually just say 'aww you're really sweet and I like you alot too' Just a tip..Do not say I love you unless you mean it!! gud luk

xxoo,
alysse

yeah, that's probably my weakness... saying NO to people. even if it's my best friend asking for #2 of last night's math hw, i still can't reject them. i'd still probably won't refuse even if it's a complete stranger. i'm like that in school and when i try to change, they automatically think i'm the most selfish person they know!:(

Its siffucult to say no to people

yeah, i know about the they'll-understand-if-they-really-love-you thing. but see, i think about what others feel or what they'll feel about me first. it's SO hard for me to say no. i put myself in their positions and it'll immediately weaken me. i don't want to get caught in the middle, but sadly that's what often happens...

say i cant answer that now