2 friends this summer!

How do you get over 2 suicides this summer. 2 of my friends killed themselves this summer, and I don't know weather to be mad that they left me when I needed them the most, or to cry because they are gone. I think I'm driving my fience (sp) insane crying alot of the time

sorry to hear of your losses..gettin over any death is never easy.. the way i deal with it, is to believe they are in a place now where they can be happy and out of their misery.. it doesn't stop the pain but does make it a little more bearable

thanks that helps a little

Deaths are difficult to deal with. It's not a bad thing to cry once and a while, but what can help is thinking of the good times. All those great memories will make you smile. I wouldn't blame you for being angry, but try to focus on the good times rather then the bad.

I'm sorry to hear about your losses. I agree with punksunite24. It is very difficult to get over and it is ok to cry. But think about the good times, don't be mad. And they never really leave you if you don't forget them. They'll always be in your heart and by your side. Just not in a physical way. And your fiance will be there for you to cry on. He loves you. But just remember the good times, forget the bad.
Good luck with everything.And I hope you feel better soon.
Steph

thanks, Its just this summer has felt like everyone was leaving me, We have had 3 people commit suicide this summer that I know of. and so everyone was dying.

You don't get over it babes it hurts like hell and it always will
But you do accept it and move on...
Live the life they never had the chance to see, appreciate the beauty in the world and yourself and what ever you do don't succumb to that same fate...although your days at the moment may seem dark. alone and weary...the sun will shine again trust me.

'Death isnt the greatest loss, the greatest loss is what dies inside while we live.'

You cannt let yourself die inside. your friends would want you to be happy so dont be afraid to let it happem.
you do need time to cry and get sad but have a time of happiness in there too.

im here if u need to talk.
love
~Emma

Thanks, its been a hell of a summer, but things are getting better, slowly but surely, light is coming back, and things are becoming better,