Ive lost a friend

  • dying from the inside out
    18 years ago

    at the momment me and my best friend Caitlyn are arguing a lot and i feel like were drifting apart, i dont want us to drift apart but its hard because we seem to argue every night! what do i do?

  • *Wishes do come true*
    18 years ago

    Honestly i think that when friends argue it shows that they care enough to say whats on there mind...in my opinion talk to your friend about how you feel if she is really your friend she will listen and try to make the freindship work i dont kow what you guys argue about but i hope its not serious enough to loose a friend

    hope this helps

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I'd like to agree and say it shows you care and can let your feelings out, but really if it's almost everynight it's not a good sign. Just recently i was going through the same exact thing with my "best friend", and i thought we could work it out. I havn't talked to her for 4 1/2 weeks, and we have drifted so far a part. I tried really hard to talk things out with her, but things have changed, and i don't know what's going to happen. School starts in 2 days, and things are still bad between us. I hope you can work through things. Do whatever it takes because losing a best friend causes so much pain.

  • donna
    18 years ago

    sometimes a little time apart can help the situation.. I agree with TPAM if it's almost every night it really isn't a good sign.. thats not to say it won't settle down and be alright eventually tho.. I hope it works out for you

  • Alex Marlatt
    18 years ago

    Look friends can fight over the stupidest crap sometimes, me and my bestfriend David used to argue over the craziest s***. We fought and yelled over things like the difference between a direction and "that way". Now as we have matured a bit more we are the greatest friends and he is one of the few people I can really open up to about how I am feelings. Sure you guys might fight alot but it'll get better as you both realise that friendship is much more important than some crap you won't remember in a year from now. And your friendship will be all the stronger for it.