Advice plese? Guy advice?

I really like this guy....and for a while I always thought he felt the same way but he was giving me mixed messages that I couldnt read. He would stare at me during class, move his foot near mine and then keep it there, butt into my conversations even if they had nothing to do with him, and he would always be behind me when I was walking to the next class. So after a little while of being his sorta friend....I got his number from another friend and I called him up asking for the 'homework'.

The next day, I was playing that game when you push a pretend button and you pick someone to ask out by guessing a number.....and I got him so I passed him a note during class asking if he would go out with me. Like this:
1. No Never!
2. Yes
3. Maybe Idk
(yes i kno, babish blah blah blah)

And he circled number 1. No Never!, but he crossed out the never so much that he made a hole in the paper right through the word. And he asked me how I got his number. As I was telling him, I asked him why he crossed out the never and he said that he didnt know why.

About a week later, we were watching a movie on the band stage, and there was no where to sit so I had to sit on the floor right in front of him. Except he was sitting on the chorus riser not the floor. Half way through the movie he moved so close to me that his leg was practically on top of my leg but I never said anything. He said no when I asked him out, and then he went out with someone else, then she dumped him. And even after she dumped him, he flirts with me and all like before but never does anything about it. And I dont know why he acts like that. He would talk to me on the phone the night before and be all nice, and then make fun of it a little around his friends the next day. I dont wanna get over him, but I really wanna kno why he does this, without asking him straight.

The Reason is simple, he wants to feel like he has control...He wants to look cool infront of his friends, that is why he makes fun of stuff when he is with them.

Also, it seems he likes you, but in this situation if it was me, I usually would feel kind of weird if a girl asked me out, I don't know why, I just feel that the guy always asked the girl...but then again I guess I am just old fashioned, maybe he is the sameway, Old fashioned when it comes to relationships and Romance.

Hope that helped you.

Remember regardless of what happens always keep smiling. : )

Ciao, Joe

What I would do hon is ask him if you don't like me then why do you do this and that and give him reasons. Have a friend that is friends with him talk to him and kind of inqiure about it. Trust I've delt with many a guys like that, they are so stubborn about their friends meaning they like you but they aren't ready to take it to the next level yet.

Just let him come to you. Maybe the reason why he crossed out the "never" was that maybe he will go out with you someday, but when he's ready.. he probubly said no because he's not ready. So let him come to you :)

Okay, men in general are not only confusing, but also confused...let alone a guy in high school. I don't think there is anyone who can explain why he does what he does or why he says what he says. Why do you like this guy? It doesn't even seem like he respects you. Someone who respected you, wouldn't treat you the way you're telling us he is. I used to be in high school, I've fallen more the hot asshole...I think at one point or another every girl does. Then you get a little older and laugh at yourself. Don't ever make it seem like he's better than you or too good for you...EVER! Don't feed his ego either, be yourself and just enjoy life. Like someone you're compatible with, not only because he's good looking and all the girls like him...those girls are USUALLY the jerks and assholes who never grow up....Why we fall for that? That's still an unknown mystery....

those guys...not girls...

sorry loll

lol! Well, he isnt like tht, if he seems to be hes not, he listens to me when i talk to him and all tht....hes definitly not an asshole.

play hard to get, because romance is totally phycological. we walk into a store and see this new sweater that we really want and then we get our hopes up, and when we look at the tag its like 200 dollars. we know we'll never be able to afford it, but somewhere in the back of our minds we keep wanting it. if you distant yourself from him little by little he will eventually try to get closer to you.

I agree with Leah! Thats so true!