I need help, please!!!

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    My mom and my Dad have been fighting constantly. And i can hear it everynight all night, through the walls. And during the day too. I haven't gotten sleep in I don't know how long. A few months back, my Dad lost self control, and decided to "do something for himself for once." And he started doing crack. He became extremely addicted. And fcuked a few crack whores. Cheating is something my Mom cannot tolerate. And she has kicked him out a few times, but he keeps coming back. Saying it's his house, and she should leave. I just need help in knowing how to tell my Mom to leave him. I have tried many times. Has anyone else ever had this problem? Or does anyone know how I can help in any way? I would write more about this, but I have to go to a friends in like two minutes. So please, just anything.

    -Jenna.

  • donna
    18 years ago

    I've never been through this with my parents, but my kids went through all mine and their dads arguements whilst growing up, and I know how unhealthy it is for children growing up in that sort of environment.. Mine were a lot younger tho and didn't have the insight into the arguements that You have.. Have You tried to explain to Your mum how difficult her staying with Your dad is on You and the effects it's having? Also I don't know if Your dad is still on crack, but that drug is one of the worst ones and every one I have known to use it will steal from friends and family to get their next fix.. I'm sorry You are going through this, and am sorry that I haven't been much help, all I can suggest though is that You sit down with Your mum and talk to her about how You are feeling.. Good luck for the future, I hope everything turns out good xx

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    Yeah, it's very unhealthy. Yes, my brother has told my Mom he was going to kill himself because he felt all this was his fault. I've told her many times. She refeuses to listen. Right now, he is sleeping on thecouch at night. And she locks him keyless out of the bedroom. And he has stolen to get his next fix.

    -Jenna.