a question....

well i like this guy...hes 14 im 16 we are really good friends, he flirts with me heaps, my friends say he likes me he brought me flowers he picked off a tree randomly one day and he jokingly picks on me all the time but he flirts with heaps of girls and i dont know how he feels at all im really confused and i dont want to wreck our friendship by telling him how i feel. he can make me feel like i mean everything to him and he can smile at me with one of those smiles that you just know is totally genuine but sometimes when hes around other people he acts like i dont really matter much. i go down and watch his basketball game each week and hed be upset if i didn't go but when i do he pretty much ignores me. He asks me for food or to borrow money at school all the time. and just asking for an objective opinion. are we just friends? does he like me as something more or is he using me to show off to other people??? thanks for your time and help xxALLYxx

Try asking a question like, "My friends think that we'd make a cute couple, isn't that cute/weird/funny?" Maybe that will help you.

okay thanks....i might try that...but i think hed just laugh and not think seriously about it at all...like ages ago before i liked him my friend as a oke wrote i love simon on her hand and he just looked at her like she was weird and actually said are you retarded or something? we told him it was a joke but i think hed just react like that thanks anywyay xxALLYxx

W3ll if y0u f33lin this kid jus j0k3 wit him and d0nt say y0u j0kin..like say " ahaha all these girls all ova yo and you kno you all mine..ahaha wow" then push him and jus flirt and keep the converstaion goin wit out takin bak wat you said..somethin like that..i did that and it worked fa me