what do you do when you dating someone but in love with someone

  • Jen Boivin
    18 years ago

    Ok so Im dating someone right but I also am in love with another guy. I love this other guy way more then my boyfriend. What do I do.... Do I stay with my boyfriend or go out with the guy I love, but heres the problem with the guy I love. My parents hate him and wont let me see him. But I know I cant live without him. I love him so much. Gosh Im so confused. Please help me!

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Just want to point out no one can really tell you what you should do exactly, becuase I'm sure there's more stuff to be considered then what you wrote.

    But... from what I've read I'd say leave your boyfriend, I don't see the point in staying with a guy if there's someone you like or love more then him. You'd basically just be dragging him along and playing with his emotions which you should never do, and no one deserves something like that. And I'd say probably try talking to you parents, and to this other guy. And take it from there.

  • Jenna
    18 years ago

    ok, im in the same boat...well sorta, im going out w/ my b/f who i also went out with a few times b4 and my parents HATE him. i donno why they just do. but i told my parents, he makes ME happy and i will see him if you like it or not. i love him and he loves me, and if you love this other guy and you KNOW for sure he loves you too, then maybe be w/ him, but remember is he gonna treat you good or what...think out what you feel and how he will treat you when your together and just don't worry about your 'rents, explain how you feel and they might listen and they might not. but i know even though my parents aren't very happy about Blake i told them how i felt about it and i know they didn't care what i said, so i dont care how they feel about him...hopefully this makes sence...sorry if its confusing...good luck!

    A Tainted Soul

  • Jen Boivin
    18 years ago

    thank you very much .... im just really confused now ...... its just been hard

  • Jen Boivin
    18 years ago

    thank you tainted soul.... i do really love him and he loves me alot..... im glad i have people around that can get me some advice

  • Jenna
    18 years ago

    your welcome...if you ever need anyone to talk to don't forget me...email me...death-beats-love@hotmail.com.

  • DeathsRose
    18 years ago

    If you really love him and he loves you then dump your b/f. I had the same problem a few weeks ago. I didn't feel right stringing my (then) b/f along so I just dumped him and went out with the other guy. We are so happy. I know it was the right choice. If your parents don't like him, just try to reason with them or something. I hope this helps.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Your b/f doesn't deserve what your doing. You're leading him onto belive you love him. Tell him how you feel, and let him go. He doesn't deseve what you're doing. If you really want to be with that other guy, you do that.