I need to share this...

Every story will surely part,
Not with the grace of times gone by,
But with the ceasing of the heart.

and though tears at times you weep,
from the words you spoke… and such,
remember how long forever is,
and remember, life's like a cloud...

"I just don't understand.. why would you make it up?"

^^Perhaps she was seeking attention, that is the #1 reason that a lot of people lie about what they do/what is happening in their life.

She couldnt have been seeking attention. She must have a reason inside....something that compelled her to do so....We must all support her....in her ordeal....for she is a beautiful soul...
i'm always here sunny...
dhaval

I disagree....I don't think "we must all support her"...I will, because I have never turned my back on a friend, but it is a decision each of us must make.

For me, the right thing to do is to support my friends in time of need; for others, they may see it differently. What we must do is stay true to who we are do what each of us believes to be right.

I may not be in a position to reply to this message as I don't really know Sunny.. but I have been on the site long enough to know that she has touched many hearts, and most of You have the uttermost respect for her.. She was obviously going through some tough times in her life, and wanted to cover it up with something better.. We all make mistakes, sometimes things just spiral out of control.. It doesn't make her a bad person, infact it's nice to know that although she is [what appears to me] somewhat of a legend on this site, she is also only human.. She was big enough to come back and apologise and admit she has wronged people, which in my eyes makes her an even better person.. Not many of us will stand up and admit that their wrong, especially knowing that they could lose some very good friends over it.. the bestest friends will forgive her and still be there for her.. Hope I wasn't intruding.. Good luck for the future Sunny, and I personally think it would be an awful shame if You never came back.. You have the highest respect from me xx

We all make mistakes and I can deffenitly relate...

http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/discussion/topic.html?topic_id=33438

the best thing anyone can do is come foward though. :)

Ooo. Well. You know. No matter what you may say, or try and deny this.. everyone lies. But you should learn from them, and try to never lie again. Although, that probably is easier said then done. Ah well. Sunny, I didn't know you to well.. But it's ok.

Oh. And.. to whoever said forgive and forget. People forgive, but NEVER forget =)

-ScreenplayOfDesire.

Interesting.

To be honest I'm not connected with Sunny or Bob that much other than the occasional casual hi here and there (and a few emails with Bob). In my mind Sunny's the nice lady I can count on to put a smile on my stubbly chops when I need it and Bob is THE man. The one who stands above the rest in so many areas, someone I cans end my writing to knowing I'm going to get an honest appraisal whether that's good or bad.

So, despite my slight connections to these two people, when I read this the first thing that came to mind was not 'that sucks' or poor Bob or poor Sunny, but 'Interesting'.

So, as this is not really pertinent to the subject am I posting I can feel you thinking 'why have you posted at all?' Well, this is a prime example of the highs and lows of the internet and it reminds us all that despite the connections we make over the interweb we can only ever take things at face value and treat them like the connection to our computer.

Also, on the more positive side, it reminds us that despite our many many faults, we can at least try to rise above them. Sunny, you've taken the first (and hardest) steps, I hope you continue on this path.

Bert.

On a side note, those of you who couldn't feel the thoughts of betrayal in Bob's post need to read it again.

Just goes to show, you can never really know someone, especially online.

Words are so easy.

That is why you all think I am a rather handsome young man of 27, when in actual fact I'm a 350lbs she/man of unknown age, and I hate babies and anything else that makes me feel nice.

Oh and a robot writes all my poetry, like those songs in 1984.

Seriously though, bold effort to Sunny for coming clean, it is none of my business, but, honesty is usually always the best policy, eventually.

I have sinned against Love many times, but Love cannot sin against itself
It is only when one is filled wholly with Love that sin is far away
I am just a lowly sinner that speaks of the highest virtue of Love
Your mistakes are none of my business

The thing is, she could have just disappeared and left us all to wonder and pester Bob with questions about her. She could have also said that she lost the babies. So in that area, I do respect her for telling the truth now.

Of course, it is always better to come clean on a lie as soon as possible... there is less hurt to everyone concerned, including the liar.

It really shouldn't matter (to us) why she did it.. or what she was thinking. It's over and done with now, and everyone has to decide on their own what they are going to do with the relationship they have with her.

It will be far easier for those of us that have been hurt and betrayed to get over it and get on with our lives. If this is your first betrayal, then get used to it. We are all human and people will betray you until the day you die.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't love and trust people. Just guard your heart and have the imaginary band-aids ready to cover up the wounds.

Wow, I am in shock and at a loss here.

Sunny: I pray that you recieve forgiveness; not just from people on this earthly world, but also from yourself and more from God.

I imagine the pain that you must be in and I pray that somehomw your pain eases through time.

Bob: I am so sorry babe that you have experienced this act personally.

I; however, admire the grace that you have shown in your post and will always continue to look up to you.

You will be held in my prayers and I will pray that your wounds and heart be healed. I also pray that you do not let this decieve you from loving once again.

P-N-Q: We must all stand together for all those involved. It is disappoining, but series heartaches have occured and we must stand strong for those injured most and needing a loving word.

I am not asking that you forgive or forget. I am not asking that you get involved and take sides, but what I am asking is that each one of us tonight say a prayer for everyone involved.

Many are now hurt and angered. Serious heartaches are now being felt. Please, no matter what you think pray for everyone. Those that have caused the pain and those that are innocent.

--Sher

Reply to Bob's post ^^

well, I guess I don't know the whole story yet...

No, she didn't return them, and I don't really expect her to. They were crocheted with thoughts and prayers for her and the boys (and you too for that matter) and not just yarn. Even though the boys don't exist, the blankets still belong to her and she can do with them as she pleases.

I have manys things I would like to say .....but I have already said them elsewhere and feel no need to say it again here .

All I will say is :

Bob I hope time will mend your broken heart and you will find the woman of your dreams . One who will treat you with the Love, Respect and the Honesty that you so much deserve . My thoughts and prayers are with you .

This is still like a dream, I have never known anyone to do something to this extreme...before Xmas when we talked on the phone....You had a Xmas present for me...told me you were pregnant...and I was so happy for you....I've been so concerned this whole time and so happy for you and Bob...Me knowing a little of Bob's past, I was so thankful he had found you and his life seemed happier....Boy did you fool me...all the phone calls between us about dr. visits, how you were doing, the babies...etc....I just can't believe this went on for nine long months...If it had only been a couple I might be able to understand....But Sunny, You have hurt Bob, your two girls and your friend Satin, that stood by you through thick and thin....and Satin's son....they are the most important ones that you have to deal with....I pray you are seeking the help you need and God gives your heart comfort for the pain and suffering that you've caused and I don't mean to hurt you in any way by saying this...because my prayers are going to be with you. You've took a lot of trust from all of us that were truly close to you....But I will never turn my back or hold hatred in my heart, because God don't want me too, ....I'm praying for you and also praying for all that you've hurt....I can't imagine in my wildest dreams the hurt and pain that Bob's endured...I guess I can understand when he says hes been hurt by so many women and it all started with his birth Mother....But God knows there are still some good ones out there and I pray with my whole heart that he finds one as special as he is....I wish I was near him to give him a big hug and all the support he needs...God knows theres so much healing that has to be done.....Just because of this one lie, and this is what I call a bad one..

Bob I love ya my friend and if you need me, I'm here....and I promise I'm a woman you can trust....You are a dear and precious man...I pray for comfort to fill your heart...And I also pray that Sunny finds the help she needs and comfort within her heart to live with what she's done to so many...I wish you the best Sunny. I hope you get your life on the right track for your girls...and for yourself....God Bless You....
This is truly a sad situation....

Sunny you have finally fallen out of your tree and you need help ...You have been a Goddess and an inspiration to every member on this site we all respect you as a poet ....I personally would forgive you anything (and have done )but to hurt Bob this way is unforgivable and I hope Bob finds the strength to put this behind him and get on with his life Girl you need serious help
This is a sad situation but should now be forgotten
PS I do admire you for admitting to all and you are very brave to do this especially on the Internet for everyone to see

God Bless you both

John

What the hell is this? Some kind of poems and quotes soap opera?

No offence, but if Sunny wanted to let people know about this , she should have done it by email, one to one, made each apology personal to the people who care about her [I assume she would have their email] and not made it a public drama in here, unless of course this is an extension of whatever emotion drove her to lie in the first place, in which case we are all just feeding it.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but can we all just mind our own business, and get on with writing...I don't want to here any more confessions from faceless names on a website that is meant to be about poetry.

"Apologies, the right kind of people don't need them, and the wrong kind make too much of them"

??????

I am well aware, given that I moderate this and all the other forums, that this place is for discussing things, thankyou for Illuminating me on that.

What I think is innapropriate my cult monikered friend, is the public nature of her admission and all the drama that she must have known would go with it.

This is a private matter and should stay that way, I dont care how many people she told in here. Of course this is only my opinion, and people are free to post whatever they want within reason, but my opinion is perfectly valid and I stand by it.

Ken? Not again...how many times must I ban that guy?

So Unknown is Ken huh?

Well here we go again.

Just be careful, mate, speeding to heal is one thing but one lapse at 150 and there'll be nothing left to heal. I'd rather see you pissed than spread out over 400 feet of road.

LIFE GOES ON
THE END
AHMEN

bob, i know you have new motorcycle, but don't ever try to ride too fast because to help ease your pain.....think about it!

I hope this is the last message in this soap opera come saga

only one person can forgive this misdemeanor and that is the person it affected most Bob
No one else was hurt and the confessor must live with guilt
Thats true justice
peace
John