How do I tell her?

My friend has been obsessing over her ex, and i just don't how to tell her that he's such a player. I think he's only in it for the sex... his recent ex was dumped because she wasn't easy. I think my friend is really nieve how do I tell her that he's wrong for her?

Let her find out for herself. She most likely won't listen to a word you have to say cause she'll think she's in love and that he's the one.. but she'll learn eventually... just let her learn from her mistakes alone.. :]

TELL HER IN A NICE WAY...LIKE SAY GIRL I UNDRSTAND THAT YOU LIKE HIM ALOT...BUT I DONT WANNA SEE YOU HURT AGAIN..THIS BOY IS A REAL PLAYER..I MEAN LOOK WHY HE DUMPED HE RECENT GIRL...I DONT WANT THAT HAPPENIN TO YOU AND SEE YOU HURT OV A SOMEONE WHO AINT WORTH IT...

AND IF SHE DOESNT LISTEN B LIKE...WELL I TOLD YOU WAT I HAD TO SAY...ILL ILL STILL B HERE WHEN HE BREAKS YOUR HEART....I JUS DIDNT WANNA SEE IT HAPPEN...AND THEN LET HER DO WAT SHE WANTS...LET HER FIND OUT FOR HERSELF...THE BEST WAY OF LEARNIN IS EXPERIENCE FOR SOME PPL......

It's hard to explain such to her, she's stubbern and they have been friends for a long time... whatever she sees in him I prey passes because she'll make the same choice in guys as her mother and have kids young and be held at gun-point!

I agree with Natalie, sometimes we need to learn our own lessons just be her friend, sometimes our advice isn't always welcome...

okay... i'll be her friend and hope to god that she doesn't get hurt any more in the process of moving on

Just come out and tell her that he's no good.It works.It may take some time but it'll work.One thing you definatly dont want to do is just sit back and let her mess up her life. I have 2 words for you..HELP HER.

X3Grace

I have told her, she listened...got a new topic on it tho!

well ive had this happen before...1.dont watch her go thru it..2. help her asap. 3 tell her straiight out this guy id no good and move on...

..... tell her and if she wont listen, its her choice - if she chooses not to listen, she's ignoring ur advice so its not ur fault.

1) find ur girl a diff guy thats a lot sweeter?
2)tell her that the guy is just playing her, he probably has a ton of others his list.

Tough love is telling someone they have a problem. What they choose to do with that information is their problem.